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08-19-2012, 03:02 PM
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all i need is to be taken for who I am not who they may wish I could be to be respected and cared for .. I found all of this in my Desd all I really need is her .. her arms around me make me feel like I am home .. she makes my heart smile
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08-19-2012, 05:20 PM
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a smile from my girl
I'm a simple man.
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08-19-2012, 06:10 PM
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Hmmm...
I need my partner to let me know that I exist and am special to her. It would make my day to get replies to my texts or even send an occasional text to let me know you are thinking of me. Have open communication. Talk to me when something is bothering you or you are having a bad day and hear me out when I have to talk to you about something or I have a bad day. Hold my hand, hug me, kiss me, look into my eyes and tell me you love me..show me your love as I will show you how much I love you. Even when we are angry with each other, we still need to hug and kiss our goodbyes for the day. Treat me with respect as I will treat you like you are the center of my universe. I know..too much...maybe that is why I have noone special in my life right now. |
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08-19-2012, 06:13 PM
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“Becoming real happens when someone loves you for a long, long time...generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby.
But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.” ~The Velveteen Rabbit~ To feel loved, I just need to be able to be Real.
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08-19-2012, 08:52 PM
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Let's see;
Honestly, I think I am pretty simple but most have said too high maintainence! I want to be protected, respected, honored and cherished. (and spoiled sometimes) *s I want someone to stand up to me when I need that and to just listen when I don't and someone that knows the difference. Don't say you like me one way and change your mind later. Be secure in yourself and with me. Be confident, not cocky. Finish my sentence, when I can't. Hold me when I don't know what I need. Be strong for me when I feel weak. Don't tell me what I can't do, help me to do them. Look at me like I am the only woman in the room. Touch me softly, just to let me know your there. Don't grope me.... Don't try to buy me, share life with me. You don't need to put me above you.... just walk beside me. I am old fashioned in some ways, I will take the best care of you... always let me know how valued I am.
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08-20-2012, 07:21 PM
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Gonna take a different approach here...
I need someone who doesn't buy into the Jerry McGuire "you complete me" bullsh*t. You don't complete me. I am complete by myself. You complement me. You help me see things in myself that I didn't see. You bring out great things in me, and I do that for you too. I need someone really, really, close... who will occasionally leave me alone. We don't have to do every single thing together. We don't have to have 100% of the same hobbies, friends and interests. I hate it when couples morph into this "one" thing and the individuals lose their identity. I expect to have individual activities with or without other friends involved. That's not to say that if your idea of a hobby is robbing liquor stores or blowing the family fortune at the casino that it's okay.. obvious issues there. But if you love to knit and I want to poke my eye out, or I like to do races and you wouldn't run if a lion was chasing you, I don't expect you to take up a hobby I have or go to an event I like if you have no interest. I need alone time and buddy bonding time. And I need chocolate. Just sayin. |
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08-20-2012, 07:32 PM
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just love in all ways.. heart, mind, body and soul. Everything else will come naturally.
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08-20-2012, 07:40 PM
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Hmm..I think feeling loved starts with self. I'm not sure I allow myself to feel loved, so I have to get over that hurdle. Then, I suppose it would be kind words, kind gestures, patience, feeling heard and appreciated, also feeling that the other person(s) are willing to receive my love. Sounds like a good start, I may be back after pondering some more...
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08-20-2012, 08:40 PM
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I don't need much to be loved, but I do need a few certain things:
~ love me for who I am am, faults and all ~ show me and tells me everyday just why I mean to you ~ support me in whatever I do and stand beside me ~ kiss me everyday, hold my hand, cuddle me and play with my hair ~ the easiest thing of all - just love me!
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