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08-22-2012, 11:56 PM
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Most important was to value myself a little more and know my needs and wants are equally as important in the relationship....
To not have the expectation that they can read my mind and know what I am thinking no matter how many years we have lived together...... To keep the value of friendship, take the time out to visit them, have that girls weekend away, or just a girls night out so they never feel lost in the transition of my relationships...... To let the past go and not bring it into my today so my future partner will never feel that they are like them or simply not good enough as the last...... To never go to bed on an argument always let them know they are loved as it might be the last night you sleep in the same bed together.... To not focus on those small nitty gritty annoying things that are in the end not that important.... To say I am sorry when I know I was wrong without putting up my walls...... And to not rush love, if it's meant to be it will happen naturally without forcing it...... |
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08-23-2012, 01:52 AM
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perspective
My perspective...when that changes...I am in trouble. Im learning to control my outlook with what comes up. It becomes a filter. Can groove with anything if ya got a good perspective
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08-23-2012, 08:38 AM
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08-23-2012, 08:53 AM
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Listen to your intuition Never settle Once a liar always a liar Did I mention never settle?
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08-23-2012, 09:45 AM
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Lesson: Try not to let a bad relationship embitter you...it's ugly.
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10-08-2012, 09:51 AM
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Unfortunately...
...not to trust, or believe so readily. Like they say in a popular commercial: "Show me the Carfax"...
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10-08-2012, 09:59 AM
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I finaly learned to listen to my inner red flag warning,once I use to think I was being just over cautious,not any more.I will try not to make snap judgements but it the RFW(red flag warning ) pops up I back away and give them space.Corse I have been wrong a time or two cause that were going thrue something at the time but for the most part I fine the RFW is right on.
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