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Old 09-02-2012, 11:43 AM   #1
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I sought her Dad's permission. (I mentioned this in the OP)
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I sought her Dad's permission. (I mentioned this in the OP)
Snow wants to know if Amanda is going to ask your dad...
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Snow wants to know if Amanda is going to ask your dad...
No. See my previous post.
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What if her dad had said no?
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Good question Okie! We probably would've married without their economic support.
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Good question Okie! We probably would've married without their economic support.

Do you mean "will marry" without their economic support? I thought the marriage was in the future. Just trying to keep the narrative straight, no pun intended.
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Good question Okie! We probably would've married without their economic support.
This is an interesting answer to Okie's question asking if you would have married without your partner's dad's approval.
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I think that IF I was ever going to marry again...
I would not ask Stoney's mom and hy probably wouldn't ask my mom.

marriage is not going to happen... 'cause the whole marriage thing I've tried several ways. And I've managed to stick to 1 contract in my life. That was the donor contract. So I'm thinking I'll end up with a contract like that or something just ours.

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I do however think it would be humorous to listen to the moms talk to each other about us formalizing a commitment. Because sometimes when hy and I talk about our mothers they are very alike. And if I had my sense of humor and a suit of armor on it could be really funny.
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Good question Okie! We probably would've married without their economic support.
Economic support, ah OK so this is very traditional. The parents of the bride are paying for the wedding. Are you paying for the honeymoon?
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I thought there were going to be two brides, no? I seem to remember Steph said something in another thread about calling each other wife after they're married...Steph, is that correct?

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Scout-You're right, the wedding hasn't happened. What I meant was: the wedding would happen, even without the economic support of my future in-laws.
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