Spouses/Partners of Transmen and transwomen...

[Medusa]

Originally Posted by arcstriker

Medusa...if I recall correctlly...we were politely informed that any conversation between MRS Arcstriker and I.. that we had to take to the trans zone...I am following that advice and now thats wrong too?

Wonderfull! BTW thats your reading way tooo much into what I wrote to Mrs ARcstrker. It s again projection.


Thank you...I will take it upon as advisement.

Arc-

The conversations between you and the Mrs. can be held in the privacy of your own home where nobody can say shit to you about anything offensive OR they can be held here where you open yourself up to commentary from the folks on this Queer site.

I'm not sure if you are meaning to be rude but saying things like people are projecting "insecurities" and then telling me that I'm "projecting" when moderating you is not only rude but unwise.

I know that Mrs. Arc had talked about having a hard time fitting in with Queer spaces and I certainly get that. Jackhammer and I have encountered difficulty sometimes as well.

I would ask you to consider that part of fitting in is making a concerted effort to be respectful of the space you're in. You are not only in a Queer space but in a community space. Part of the effort of this community is that folks have worked really hard to learn about each other's identities and way of living. That has only happened when folks have given respect to one another's differences, cut out the judgment, and laid down defenses.

Thanks!