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Old 03-11-2010, 05:25 AM   #1
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Hopefully, not dead. In 5 years I'll be 72, so who the hell knows? I just want to be healthy, and be able to take care of myself - that will be enough.
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Old 03-11-2010, 06:42 AM   #2
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I've spent the biggest part of my life trying to please other people be they parents, partners, employers or friends. My resolution back in January of this year was to live for me, please me and not worry about pleasing other people.

So this year I'm working on myself. Not self esteem, I don't have a problem in that area. Rather my inner self, my mind, getting myself to a place where, I don't get upset when I'm not pleasing other people all the time.

I am hoping to have chest surgery before I'm 50, and in that time span I need to loose some weight so the surgeon can do a better job with it.

I have had Plantar fasciitis for 2 yrs, it healed last year about this time and then I partially tore my achilles tendon. I've been unable to do any lower body exercising during that time and I don't need anything muscle building above the waist. So I'm trying to make myself exercise every day. This is hard because it makes my ankle sore to use it alot, long or up hill walking, riding the bike etc so I'm going to try to get into better physical shape somehow. This is a prerequisite I set for myself before chest surgery.

Within five years I hope to have either changed jobs or changed careers. This one will be hard but I feel like it is what I need.

Last but not least, I'd hope in five years time I'd have found someone to share my life. Might happen you never know if it doesn't then it doesn't matter it will happen when God deems me ready for that journey
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Well I hope before this years is done that my back probs are fixed so I will be out of pain or at least nearly so.
When thats done and maybe before,I want to go back to work cause really like being a chef..besides who cant use a fue mor $$.
I would love to travel,meet some ppl.Who knows I may find Mrs.Right or not cause im ok as it is.
Learn to chill more and not take life so serious,love more,laugh more ect.
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I hope to be traveling more.

Writing more.

Loving life.

Planning my retirement.
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Hrmm... Let's see (see fine print)***

1. Finally have a driver's license
2. Finally had chest surgery
3. Be on my way to get US Citizenship
4. Bought a house with K (hopefully in either Oregon, Washington State or B.C.)
5. Gotten a Golden Retriever of my own
6. Debt free except for house and car
7. Still at same company but perhaps a manager by this point.
8. Biked from San Fran to L.A.
9. Biked from Vancouver to L.A.
10. Biked from L.A. to Mexico (where exactly is still up for grabs).


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Carmen, my Aunt Louise is 73 and still working full time.

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I will be where I am meant to be.

If you asked me five years ago where I would be today - I sure wouldn't have said where I am now.....
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If you asked me five years ago where I would be today - I sure wouldn't have said where I am now.....
I pictured me loafing away on siping with the love of my life fully retired.man, was I dreamimg or what!
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I'm 51, alive would be good.
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