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Today I want to let go of the guilt that I hold for NOT losing the baby fat, the fat that went beyond baby fat, the fat that came back after the diets, the fat that stayed while dieting.
I want to let go not with the intention that if I could somehow then be guiltfree I could then be thin... I want to let go just because it serves me no positive purpose, and weighs more than the fat does, on my soul.
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10-18-2012, 06:41 PM
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How is everyone? Surely we cant be THAT quiet?
I posted new photos of my store in my gallery. Just in case you want to see it in the fall season. So, its a HUGE holiday season coming up. Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years Eve. Time to be buying outfits. What are you going to be for Halloween? Does holiday outfit buying unsettle you? What can I do to make it more comfortable for the gals who come to my shop?
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Oh I love the idea of hot chocolate!! Thank you!!!!
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Although I've been socialized to have weird standards for myself, i'm totally attracted to sexy butches of all sizes.It does not factor in.... i have one gorgeous butch in mind and size is not an issue!
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I'm not sure if this belongs this in this thread, but I'm not sure where else to put it.
Do any of you have tips for when you're feeling not-so-positive? This article pretty well sums up what it's like to be fat in a skinny, crunchy, yoga and snowboard loving town like Vancouver, and it gets really hard to remain positive at times. What do you do to be nice to yourself when you're feeling down? |
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10-27-2012, 02:52 PM
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I must post that...
I love big femmes....so deeply beautiful. So gorgeous. Be happy and be healthy and know you are HOT HEAVEN.
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I wanted to bump this question, ruby woo, because it is such an important one!
Let's see. When I'm feeling not-so-positive, here's some of what I do that helps me: -exercise (gets me in touch with my body feeling strong and capable and the adrenalin rush feels good too) -talk to or hang out with someone body positive (or go on body positive web sites) -a few weeks ago i cried and told my partner my feelings on a bad day, and hy listened and reassured me genuinely that i had not done anything that was so bad -let myself feel bad and realize it'll pass... Quote:
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11-07-2012, 06:03 PM
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As weird as it sounds I get made up pretty with makeup and get nude, I then look at myself and ask if I am really hideous on the outside... It's hard to say when you are wearing your favorite makeup combo for me at least no matter if I'm 180 pounds at that time in my life or 250lbs.
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