Dating other femmes exes: what do you think?

[tantalizingfemme]

Wow, you completely misinterpreted my post. Not sure why you are so defensive to a simple post pointing out how I noticed how much you care about your friend.

Btw, this is coming as femme to femme, not bio-male to femme.

[Dance-with-me]

Something I meant to ask: Was your friend there with the new person she was seeing?

If not, would it have been different (at least in your mind, since you can't answer for her) if she had been there with her new gf?

If she was there with the new gf, do you feel that she would be obligated to not be affectionate with her new gf in front of her ex?

I'm just trying to understand.

[*Anya*]

Originally Posted by Dance-with-me

Something I meant to ask: was your friend there with the new person she was seeing? If not, would it have been different (at least in your mind p, since you can't answer for her) if she had been there with her new gf? If she was there with the new gf, do you feel that she would be obligated to not be affectionate with her new gf in front of her ex? I'm just trying to understand.

Actually, she went by herself. She had not started to date. The break-up was pretty new. She did not know the ex would be there with someone new.

I am off to bed now.

Good night all.

[*Anya*]

Originally Posted by tantalizingfemme

Wow, you completely misinterpreted my post. Not sure why you are so defensive to a simple post pointing out how I noticed how much you care about your friend.

Btw, this is coming as femme to femme, not bio-male to femme.

I guess it was the "very emotional" phrase and maybe now, the "so defensive".

I did like the "how much you care for your friend". That was nice and I should have noted that.

Thank you.