When a Femme meets a Butch... dating advice!

[LipstickLola]

Originally Posted by IslandScout

I think when someone discloses that they're on FB, they're demonstrating that they trust you with that knowledge and understand that it gives you the option of friending them.

I think it would be completely appropriate to send her a friend request.

My only hesitation would be, why is she dropping hints and not being more forthright? Maybe she's just a little shy, no harm in that. Or maybe she's kind of passive, which would not be so fun for you, I'm guessing.

Or maybe we're overthinking the whole thing. Friend her! I friend people I barely know, because we're in the same community or have some other thing in common. It's not such a big deal, to many.

I completely agree!! and btw, am living vicariously through you!! , LOL
We are about the same age you and I, and I share many if not all of the same concerns you share here! Facebook seems to be "the way it's done" these days, least my kids tell me that.....

Good luck!! and I'm dying to know how this turns out....
Lola