Single Butch-Femme Questionnaire - Getting to know one another intimately...

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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Jaime

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Saggitarius

Birth Date: 29th

Location: Connecticut

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Blonde

Piercings - how many & where: None

Tattoos - how many & where: None

Cat person or dog person: Cat

Job: Writer

What do you like about your job?: Writing, promoting

What do you loathe about your job?: Editing, taxes

Favorite books / authors: Dean Koontz, Stephen King, James Patterson

Favorite bands/musicians: Tori Amos, Pink, Linkin Park, The Cranberries, Depeche Mode

Favorite movies: Labryrinth, Legend, Halloween (1978), The Strangers

Favorite websites: ButchFemmePlanet, CuteOverload, DamnYouAutoCorrect, Facebook

Favorite TV shows: Hot in Cleveland, The Client List

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Chocolate please

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Talk to myself

What is your pet peeve: People chewing noisily

Favorite curse word: Fuck

Favorite magazine: Don't read magazines

A culture that intrigues you: Native American

Do you like to dance? LOVE to dance

If you could change a law which would it be? Oh my. Just one?

Do you collect anything? I used to collect rocks but I left them in North Carolina

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I don't know

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Not unless I got mangled in a car wreck

Your idea of a good meal: Anything home cooked and gluten free

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Hmmmm

Introvert or extrovert: Introvert

Dream profession: Writer

What are your Hobbies: Hiking, reading

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Bees and highways

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Oh yes. I'm an old soul.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair, my eyes, my boobs lol!

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It's very delicate and sensitive and allergic to everything

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? End poverty. Universal health care (with no strings attached). No discrimination, everybody lives equally.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I'm not sure

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: I'm a spiritualist

Do you generally feel understood? No, not at all

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Without hesitation

Biggest concern about aging: Losing control

What were you like in high school? Geeky, quiet, terrified

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? It used to be...

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Bullying, equal rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My aunt's

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Queer femme

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Queer femme

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: A strong, patient, calm person with a good heart and a spiritual side. Somebody with intellect and a sense of humor. Confidence and a take-charge attitude in the bedroom is a must.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: I tend to attract needy, clingy bois but I need to stop

Number of times you've been in love: Madly, completely, and totally committed? Twice.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How intense it is

Monogamy or polyamory: I'm on the fence about that

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Yeah. Lemme skip that.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes. It was trying but yes.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy: 14 Butch: 22

Describe your best kiss: I've had a few good kisses. The best is always the one where someone completely takes me over.

Describe your last kiss: Painful. Lots of tears.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Arms, Butt

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Being clingy, obsessive

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Her

What are you self-conscious about naked? My stomach. I'm thin but it's not flat.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Lights off please

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Pulled that clump of hair at the crown of my head, bit me, held me down

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Hesitating, stopping, being uncertain

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Yes, a few

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes

Name your fetishes: I like to suckle ears, I love being held down, I love being bitten

Leather - yes or no?: Yes, in my fantasies (It hasn't quite become a reality yet)

BDSM - yes or no?: I'm open

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes and I regret it

How often do you masturbate? Um...yeah. Skip!

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? That's my secret