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11-03-2012, 08:09 PM
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How much more stupid can the Republicans get? Maybe they'll forget it's Election Day and stay home.
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11-05-2012, 06:09 PM
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I've been thinking about this a lot, and I'm glad the question came up. I wanted to say that with every label comes the dreaded stereotype. Yet, if we do not have a way to differentiate with 'labels' things get cloudy for some. I like to think of these categories as 'descriptors' rather than labels. Well the emerging generations of Studs, Ags, Aggressives, Machas etc., also deal with being stereotyped within the Community. Just like Butch folks, Femme folks and all under the rainbow folks have. I have 2 links to share for thought One is a U-TooB channel from StudzLife101. http://www.youtube.com/user/StudzLife101?feature=watch The other is this video... 
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11-05-2012, 06:20 PM
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AS for the term "papi"
I've only heard papi referred to for male identified individuals, gay or straight. My girl actually calls me papi = daddy. I also know mostly latin people, male and female, use the term to call younger latin males. . and guys call other guys papi too. At least here in Fl where I am. I'm sure when they use that term "papi" it's not in reference to daddy but instead a male they believe is good looking. Hence the term "papi chulo"
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11-05-2012, 06:28 PM
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On the other hand, I have a friend of 22 years who is Hispanic and whose Femme calls her Papi and/or Poppi...her preferred pronoun is She. So does not Identify as a male. It's all relative...to me. 
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11-05-2012, 06:39 PM
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Cause I am to tired to type about it
>LINKYLOO< "Excuse Me Sir" All the shows are actually all very informative, you'll have to look them up on YOU TUBE to watch them.
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Excellent post Mr. Day. I think of butch, femme, papi and other descriptors as you said as identities. A woman spoke at a conference we went to and she said labels are what others apply to you and identites are what you use to express yourself. I thought this was a great way of putting it. Are labels and identities the same thing? I don't think they are.
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11-05-2012, 08:59 PM
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11-03-2012, 08:24 PM
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I agree with Corkey, from what I have learned in the community, that butch and stud or aggressive are not the same thing. Last year there was a huge kerfuffle in the community when Butch Voices decided to add "masculine of center" to their mission statement. Many butches were upset about this. The organizers maintained that the term MoC was more inclusive to communities of color who did not necessarily feel comfortable with the term butch.
I know that my partner came out in the 70s and that in his community people did use the term stud. I don't think it is that new. Girl on Fire I don't think you meant to be offensive but it is important to understand that the question as worded was offensive to some. My goodness I have said any number of things on forums that have offended people. I take it as a learning experience and I am grateful for every person who did point things out to me!
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