Everything you wanted to know about dating...

Chancie · 11-17-2012, 09:40 AM

I went on a few first dates with people I met online, mostly through a now defunct dating site.

For me, if I knew after one cup of coffee that I wouldn't want to see my date again,

I told them directly, and

Because I had met them online, and

Because we had only gone out once,

I would send an email.

I would say, You are an awesome person, but

I didn't feel any chemistry between us. <-- Yes, I really did this.

Several dates might require a telephone call, but

Even if one is shy, I think an email is better than nothing.

I enjoyed getting to know you, but I don't think we have much in common, or

I liked meeting you. Maybe our paths will cross again some time.

<-- Is that too vague?

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11-17-2012, 09:40 AM	#29
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,518 Thanked 14,541 Times in 2,744 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I went on a few first dates with people I met online, mostly through a now defunct dating site. For me, if I knew after one cup of coffee that I wouldn't want to see my date again, I told them directly, and Because I had met them online, and Because we had only gone out once, I would send an email. I would say, You are an awesome person, but I didn't feel any chemistry between us. <-- Yes, I really did this. Several dates might require a telephone call, but Even if one is shy, I think an email is better than nothing. I enjoyed getting to know you, but I don't think we have much in common, or I liked meeting you. Maybe our paths will cross again some time. <-- Is that too vague?