Single FTM's & Femme's

[curlyredhead]

Originally Posted by Uniqueswtfemm

Hmmm...watching the View this morning and the subject of transgender comes up. This weekend on 20/20 it will be discussed. Interesting, it will be a young boy, now becoming a girl. She is 11, but on hormones. She is interested in dating ( at 11 is too young) but it will probably give insight on how to approach it.
Set your DVR' s now

I am openly trans and almost Post OP. I sort of have an issue with kids that young transitioning. Your brain isn't fully developed yet. Its a very sensitive topic in the trans community. If my kid was trans, I would tell them we support you and we love you, but please wait till you are older before you make your decision to start transitioning. As for dating I was 14 before I had my first date, I kissed a boy and I had nightmares for 3 days and dumped him after that.

[GraffitiBoi]

Originally Posted by curlyredhead

I am openly trans and almost Post OP. I sort of have an issue with kids that young transitioning. Your brain isn't fully developed yet. Its a very sensitive topic in the trans community. If my kid was trans, I would tell them we support you and we love you, but please wait till you are older before you make your decision to start transitioning. As for dating I was 14 before I had my first date, I kissed a boy and I had nightmares for 3 days and dumped him after that.

I also have an issue with transitioning that young. I know they want to make the transition easier by starting it before the hormones of the original gender kick in, but I know too many people who have changed their minds after all surgeries were complete. Most of transitioning is not reversible.

I didn't date until I was 14 or 15. Had the same reaction!