If You Could Turn Back Time, What Would You Do Differently?

SuddenlyWestFemme · 02-19-2013, 10:42 PM

If I could turn back time, I wouldn't have answered that PM. Although I have come to love Seattle, I wouldn't have moved and would still be living on 26th Street in NYC--possibly even in love with an east coast Butch that I never got to meet.

But I did answer that PM. And perhaps something amazing is in store for me here on the left coast that will make me glad I answered it.

maryam · 02-20-2013, 12:49 AM

I would do 16 over. The whole freaking year. I wouldn't change the end result, but it could have been done much better. Less collateral damage and all that.

Contessa · 02-20-2013, 01:00 AM

Remember as kids playing in the front yard (like kick ball) we would call a "RE-DO?"!! Well, there are sure times where I wish I could have done that immediately after i said or did something because I did not think it through. Luckily with age and experience, I have learned to think before I let someone hook up that Uhaul..LOL I have had many high points in life and many low points as I'm sure many have..But few regrets. The regrets I do have..Pray about them and move on.

TheMerryFairy · 02-20-2013, 01:01 AM

If I turned back time, would I even still be the same person?

I struggle with this concept a lot because while there are certainly things I would have done different now that I know the result, every action and every thought provided me with a new lesson and a new chance.

As much as I would like to change some of the experiences I have had, I wouldn't want to compromise what I have now and what I think I may have in the near future because of following my travelling barber business dream.

Bard · 02-20-2013, 02:18 AM

this is hard because the path i have walked on the good and the bad made me who i am and lead me to desd the love of my life and all the happiness i have now,, but i would go back to a 9 year old me and tell my mom i love her that last time i saw her before her accident.. i would go back and tell my dumb head to listen to my heart and admit how very much i loved desd from the start.. she was then and is now everything i could have ever wanted in a lover a partner and a best friend.. lastly i would have cut my losses with a former friend but we live and learn.. i have a amazing life a wonderful daughter and a wife who takes my breath away

JustBeingMe · 02-20-2013, 02:33 AM

If I could turn back time, I wouldn't have made some of the stupid decisions I have made way back when. I would do things differently and maybe, just maybe, things would have turned out better for it.

02-20-2013, 01:00 AM	#3
Contessa Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: US Posts: 220 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,134 Thanked 673 Times in 182 Posts Rep Power: 6048530	Re-Do! Re-Do!! Remember as kids playing in the front yard (like kick ball) we would call a "RE-DO?"!! Well, there are sure times where I wish I could have done that immediately after i said or did something because I did not think it through. Luckily with age and experience, I have learned to think before I let someone hook up that Uhaul..LOL I have had many high points in life and many low points as I'm sure many have..But few regrets. The regrets I do have..Pray about them and move on.

02-20-2013, 02:18 AM	#5
Bard Family Man How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones Relationship Status: She just gets me Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ..... Posts: 2,828 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,997 Thanked 12,786 Times in 2,431 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	this is hard because the path i have walked on the good and the bad made me who i am and lead me to desd the love of my life and all the happiness i have now,, but i would go back to a 9 year old me and tell my mom i love her that last time i saw her before her accident.. i would go back and tell my dumb head to listen to my heart and admit how very much i loved desd from the start.. she was then and is now everything i could have ever wanted in a lover a partner and a best friend.. lastly i would have cut my losses with a former friend but we live and learn.. i have a amazing life a wonderful daughter and a wife who takes my breath away __________________ This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill Fifteen percent concentrated power of will Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain And a hundred percent reason to remember the name! Give yourself over to absolute pleasure. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh - erotic nightmares beyond any measure, and sensual daydreams to treasure forever. Can't you just see it? Don't dream it, be it.

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JustBeingMe Senior Member How Do You Identify?: as ME Relationship Status: I don't need no stinking status. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: somewhere you're not..... Posts: 1,808 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,961 Thanked 1,690 Times in 694 Posts Rep Power: 12813869	If I could turn back time, I wouldn't have made some of the stupid decisions I have made way back when. I would do things differently and maybe, just maybe, things would have turned out better for it. __________________ Nothing more, Nothing less, I'm Just Being Me

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02-19-2013, 10:42 PM	#1
SuddenlyWestFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Seattle Posts: 116 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 296 Thanked 522 Times in 88 Posts Rep Power: 7145835	If I could turn back time, I wouldn't have answered that PM. Although I have come to love Seattle, I wouldn't have moved and would still be living on 26th Street in NYC--possibly even in love with an east coast Butch that I never got to meet. But I did answer that PM. And perhaps something amazing is in store for me here on the left coast that will make me glad I answered it.

02-20-2013, 12:49 AM	#2
maryam Member How Do You Identify?: femme-ish Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: taken Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: somewhere, out there.... Posts: 263 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 675 Thanked 794 Times in 231 Posts Rep Power: 4979164	I would do 16 over. The whole freaking year. I wouldn't change the end result, but it could have been done much better. Less collateral damage and all that.

02-20-2013, 01:01 AM	#4
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	If I turned back time, would I even still be the same person? I struggle with this concept a lot because while there are certainly things I would have done different now that I know the result, every action and every thought provided me with a new lesson and a new chance. As much as I would like to change some of the experiences I have had, I wouldn't want to compromise what I have now and what I think I may have in the near future because of following my travelling barber business dream.