The older I get, the more I realize...

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Originally Posted by Jar

.... that life is to enjoy. You have to go for it and let go of the fear of failure, laugh at the funny things AND at yourself, take care of the spirit inside you, love like there's no tomorrow even it doesn't last, be yourself and don't worry about what others say about you, own your mistakes, grieve the endings and losses and move on. You have one time around and this is it baby!

Well said!! I've also found that being a friend is so
important if you want a friend to stick around. And that a good friend is
worth more than anything money can buy. I'd give up a sex partner for
a loyal friend any day.