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Old 09-01-2013, 08:23 PM   #1
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Family drama. Trying not to let it cloud my joy.
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Reading online news about the Syria issue. Bouncing around, reading different articles. Then I opened this one article. There was a large, clear photo of 3 deceased children lined up together. Someone had taped a piece of ragged scrap paper on each one's chest. I imagine maybe their names? I studied each one's face and imagined her/him playing and laughing. Wondered things like what their favorite color was. I think they were about preschool age or maybe one was in 1st or 2nd grade. These beautiful children, they were just babies.

Yes, made me sad. Very sad.
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Family drama. Trying not to let it cloud my joy.

You must have read my mind.... me too sister, me too.
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Thinking about the fact that Riley will soon be moving with her Daddy and I may never see her again... but I know its the right thing for her.
That you think you will never see her again after the move. She needs you too and I know that so please know she will visit you and the Holy Terror when it is possible and right....that is depending on how well she handles the train but I know she has got that in her too....
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It has been a sad home for 2 days now ...

Yesterday my sweet Bass (BluIze's Bass) and I had to go identify the body
of Hys 46 year old ex of 16 years,
who is also the mother of Hys 4 children.

Emotions are so high ... Guilt is rampant ...
There is anger, fear, hurt, and complete sorrow for all.

All I can do is be there for Hym, love Hym completely
and give Hym all and any support that Hy needs
and may not know Hy needs.

Hy had the pleasure of getting to meet some of our wonderful BFP family
at the Reunion and wanted to share this news with Hys now new family ...
Hy is a kind, gentle, caring and loving soul that is in so much pain
and confusion on what to feel.

Please send out light, love, strength and healing.

With much love ..............
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I just saw this ...
With all my heart and sincerity ...
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I just realized that someone that
I truly respect and hold in a special place in my heart
has blocked me on Fb, and I don't know why.
This made me very sad.
I'm hoping this is a temporary thing.

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The words I heard three hours ago....they are still ringing in my ears....
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Someone I have known longer than anyone else, who offered before to donate so we could have a baby, backed out tonight when learned that we would not be having sex to do this.

It was the last straw to break the camel's back today and I lost it, logged off and curled up and cried.

Why didn't I just stick with my decision that I'd never have kids? I can't even get this ball rolling.

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Why didn't I just stick with my decision that I'd never have kids? I can't even get this ball rolling.


Hang in there and keep trying. It'll be well worth it when it finally happens. I would've loved to have had kids with someone but it didn't happen. I make a good uncle though
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The other night, I had a dream that I ended up with a houseful (4, to be exact) of kitties that I rescued. As it turned out, that number soon tripled because, well...you know, lol. There were also about 4 or 5 baby elephants living in my home (I adore elephants but still, yikes!) that were rescues.

[As an aside, this was interesting to me because most of the cats and of course, the elephants were gray and recently all of my dreams have been hypercolored with vivid scents and bold patterns.]

When I was sharing this dream with a friend of mine, he suggested that it meant I needed to get another cat very soon. He said that I could save a kitty from a life of abuse.

The thought made me promptly burst into tears as I remembered my sweet cat who recently passed away. She can't ever be replaced and the very idea of getting another pet makes me feel like a betrayer.

Conversely, I was also saddened at the thought of not getting another pet and possibly dooming it to a life of hardship.

I just don't think I can do it, though.
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The other night, I had a dream that I ended up with a houseful (4, to be exact) of kitties that I rescued. As it turned out, that number soon tripled because, well...you know, lol. There were also about 4 or 5 baby elephants living in my home (I adore elephants but still, yikes!) that were rescues.

[As an aside, this was interesting to me because most of the cats and of course, the elephants were gray and recently all of my dreams have been hypercolored with vivid scents and bold patterns.]

When I was sharing this dream with a friend of mine, he suggested that it meant I needed to get another cat very soon. He said that I could save a kitty from a life of abuse.

The thought made me promptly burst into tears as I remembered my sweet cat who recently passed away. She can't ever be replaced and the very idea of getting another pet makes me feel like a betrayer.

Conversely, I was also saddened at the thought of not getting another pet and possibly dooming it to a life of hardship.

I just don't think I can do it, though.
The bolded and underlined part is your problem, imo. IF you got another pet, it would NOT be to replace your baby. It would be because you are human and most humans require affection and intimate connections with other creatures. To deny yourself of that is to deny your nature.

Now, having said that, that doesn't mean go right this very second and nab the first cute and fuzzy thing you see. No, it means to keep your heart open to the possibility that maybe, just maybe your baby will send another to love.

That's all. No betrayal necessary. Just the acknowledgement that you don't live in a vacuum and that you have feelings and needs that a pet could help with. That's the jist of it.
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