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| I am FEMME and I have lots of friends who I talk to regularly. |
   
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23 | 15.23% |
| I am FEMME and I have a few close friends. |
  
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32 | 21.19% |
| I am FEMME and I have a lot of friends but prefer to connect online or through text. |
  
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7 | 4.64% |
| I am FEMME and I have 1 or 2 close friends. We speak often. |
  
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17 | 11.26% |
| I am FEMME and I don't have many "close" friends but connect with people online regularly. |
  
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8 | 5.30% |
| I am FEMME and have been close friends with several people for over 10 years. |
  
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33 | 21.85% |
| I am FEMME and I HATE to talk on the phone. |
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26 | 17.22% |
| I am FEMME and I often talk on the phone. |
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13 | 8.61% |
| I am BUTCH and I have lots of friends who I talk to regularly. |
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7 | 4.64% |
| I am BUTCH and I have a few close friends. |
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21 | 13.91% |
| I am BUTCH and I have a lot of friends but prefer to connect online or through text. |
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1 | 0.66% |
| I am BUTCH and I have 1 or 2 close friends. We speak often. |
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9 | 5.96% |
| I am BUTCH and I don't have many "close" friends but connect with people online regularly. |
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2 | 1.32% |
| I am BUTCH and have been close friends with several people for over 10 years. |
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18 | 11.92% |
| I am BUTCH and I HATE to talk on the phone. |
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15 | 9.93% |
| I am BUTCH and I often talk on the phone. |
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6 | 3.97% |
| I am a Transperson and I have lots of friends who I talk to regularly. |
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6 | 3.97% |
| I am a Transperson and I have a few close friends. |
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13 | 8.61% |
| I am a Transperson and I have a lot of friends but prefer to connect online or through text. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I am a Transperson and I have 1 or 2 close friends. We speak often. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I am a Transperson and I don't have many "close" friends but connect with people online regularly. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I am a Transperson and have been close friends with several people for over 10 years. |
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8 | 5.30% |
| I am a Transperson and I HATE to talk on the phone. |
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8 | 5.30% |
| I am a Transperson and I often talk on the phone. |
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6 | 3.97% |
| I think friendships are overrated. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I think that all genders create friendships in basically the same ways. |
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33 | 21.85% |
| I think that people who have no friends are "unhealthy" in some way. |
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18 | 11.92% |
| I think people who have lots of friends are "unhealthy" in some way. |
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5 | 3.31% |
| I think it is healthy to build friendships from online interactions. |
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35 | 23.18% |
| I think it is unhealthy to build friendships from online interactions. |
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2 | 1.32% |
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I am not sure how to answer this because I am one of those people who sees femme, butch, trans as id's not genders. I am butch and female. I see my friendship style as female in origin not butch inspired. My closest relationships are with femmes, female id people, and straight women. The style is more intimate and communication focused. My buddies are male id, straight male, gay male and our friendships are more about stuff and activities. As for changes over the years, I chalk them up to life stages. Way back when it was about career/family, and now it is about retirement, parenting became parenting your parents, accumulation of stuff has become simplicity, form and function has been replaced with meaning. As for the mode of communication, I prefer the personal stuff i.e. face to face, or cam to cam, or telephone. I am less happy with typing and am not fond of texting. |
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