Flirting in a Non-GLBT Space

[Nat]

Ha - I had a slight flirting fail today. I came out of a bathroom stall to the sight of a beautiful butchy-type person at the sinks who was dressed as one of the wait staff. Without thinking twice, an appreciative and slightly drawn-out, "hey there!" escaped my mouth. Because every butch wants to be hit on in a public bathroom at their job. Ha. Anyway, there was a quiet "hey," a rapid drying of hands and a quick escape. I totally forgot about it til I started catching up on this thread. It's not like I didn't mean it, but I wasn't invested either. Mostly in the moment following my utterance I was thinking, "shit I hope she knows I know she's not a man," and "way to make public bathrooms even more socially uncomfortable for a butch." Oops! I'm sure she's fine and all, but it wasn't my proudest flirty moment.