What are your three non-negotiables (in a relationship)?

GeeGina · 01-12-2014, 02:17 PM

For me, the non-negotiables are:

1. Honesty - no secrets, ever.
2. A sense of humor.
3. Communication.

Kinda simple, but at the same time if they're so damn simple why are they so hard to do?

01-12-2014, 03:52 PM

An IQ over 130
A wide vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish
Willingness to get downright filthy!

caffeinelover · 01-15-2014, 12:58 PM

1 -Healthy in body and mind =

In body: No self-inflicted diseases ( ex: lung cancer from smoking, obesity from overeating, lack of mobility from said obesity and lack of exercise, etc = I'm an ex-obese before you flame me!)

Zero addictions: including porn, videogames, internet, prescription drugs such as antidepressant (someone unable to function without their pills).
Alcohol socially o.k. Occasional marijuana negotiable.
Preferably non-smoker.

In mind: Psychologically- sound:with no unrecognized unhealthy patterns.
Negotiable: Someone working on themselves actively through therapy, meditation, whatever form of self-development is fine with me as long as there is action taken.

2- Not hurting animals or human beings.
No hunting or fishing, no working in the meat industry or any industry hurting animals, no restraining orders from abused spouses or family members in their past

3- Loyalty, faithfulness

Sweet Bliss · 01-16-2014, 12:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daktari

An IQ over 130
A wide vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish
Willingness to get downright filthy!

*throws afghan over ya... gotcha covered!!!!!

Sweet Bliss · 01-17-2014, 07:08 AM

MysticOceansFL · 01-17-2014, 08:29 AM

Sweet Bliss ;
An IQ over 130
A wide vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish
Willingness to get downright filthy!

Well, everyone is smart in their own way so I wouldn't place a limit on someone's ability.

Having a wide range of vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish is nice but willingness to use it in a down right filthy way. I guess it would be great but anyone can use vocabulary well in that way but wouldn't that after a while getting a little redundant like reading fifty shades of grey eh? I mean that's just mhop, besides I prefer the real deal.

01-17-2014, 09:12 AM

Katniss · 01-17-2014, 09:24 AM

Hey now, some folks pay good money for mud.....

Sweet Bliss · 01-17-2014, 08:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MysticOceansFL

Sweet Bliss ;
An IQ over 130
A wide vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish
Willingness to get downright filthy!

Well, everyone is smart in their own way so I wouldn't place a limit on someone's ability.

Having a wide range of vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish is nice but willingness to use it in a down right filthy way. I guess it would be great but anyone can use vocabulary well in that way but wouldn't that after a while getting a little redundant like reading fifty shades of grey eh? I mean that's just mhop, besides I prefer the real deal.

I took Daktari's post to be three separate things.

High IQ, fancy word user, and a lover that likes being super naughty.

I don't think my brain would work to use big fancy words while being loving. In fact, getting kissed good and proper leaves me breathless and brainless. So much for IQ points,

And I don't know what the 50 shades of grey/mud reference is about.

kittygrrl · 01-17-2014, 08:52 PM

tenacity
unconditional
patient

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01-12-2014, 02:17 PM	#1
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Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	An IQ over 130 A wide vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish Willingness to get downright filthy!

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caffeinelover Junior Member How Do You Identify?: ------------------ Preferred Pronoun?: ------------------------- Relationship Status: -------------------------- Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: -------------------- Posts: 18 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 40 Thanked 65 Times in 15 Posts Rep Power: 429510	1 -Healthy in body and mind = In body: No self-inflicted diseases ( ex: lung cancer from smoking, obesity from overeating, lack of mobility from said obesity and lack of exercise, etc = I'm an ex-obese before you flame me!) Zero addictions: including porn, videogames, internet, prescription drugs such as antidepressant (someone unable to function without their pills). Alcohol socially o.k. Occasional marijuana negotiable. Preferably non-smoker. In mind: Psychologically- sound:with no unrecognized unhealthy patterns. Negotiable: Someone working on themselves actively through therapy, meditation, whatever form of self-development is fine with me as long as there is action taken. 2- Not hurting animals or human beings. No hunting or fishing, no working in the meat industry or any industry hurting animals, no restraining orders from abused spouses or family members in their past 3- Loyalty, faithfulness

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