Femmes: what makes you feel sexy?

Candelion · 02-12-2014, 10:12 PM

Coming home from work and immediately diving into an entertaining story about my day. Overwhelmed by my adorableness (what? I can be adorable), hy pushes me up against the wall and kisses me hard. Okay, okay, hy was probably just trying to shut me up. But still...very sexy.

tiaras-and-books · 03-21-2014, 12:09 AM

Dance classes make a big difference for me. I think it's partly that they help me let go of a lot of stress, plus endorphins, but I also think that it helps a lot in reconnecting me with my body. After a dance class I feel whole, engaged, and like my whole body is alive. I actually feel alive instead of just knowing it.

Asari · 03-21-2014, 07:12 AM

Ironically the same thing that made me feel ugly in the past: swimming (and wearing a bikini). Once I'm in the pool I feel so light and smooth and while gliding through the water I'm aware of my whole body.

Oh and skirts with over knee socks as well!

Ginger · 03-21-2014, 01:47 PM

Exercise and enough sleep.

deedarino · 03-23-2014, 02:59 PM

i feel the most sexy when I am doing something considered masculine...chopping wood, working outside, fixing something (uber simple) on my truck. Just a touch of dirt and sweat...

Sweet Bliss · 03-23-2014, 04:18 PM

Breathing....

Femmadian · 04-24-2014, 12:02 AM

Things I do for me:

-Smooth legs with a skirt and high quality heels to show them off
-New makeup, and the good stuff, too! Stila mascara does wonders!
-Freshly cut and straightened hair (after growing up with ringlets all of my life, being introduced to my first flat iron was magical! Being able to easily run my own fingers through my hair is such a luxury)
-Hearing the clinking sound of my own jewelry as I move
-Really nice and, er, supportive undergarments...
-Putting my giant sunglasses on, windows down in my Jeep, feeling the wind in my hair, and catching a glimpse of myself in the rear view mirror and truthfully liking what I see.
-Crossing my legs in a skirt. Sometimes it's the simple things.
-Going to an art gallery/theatre/highbrow university event and feeling like I both look the part and belong there. Growing up working class, this is something that is important to me and boosts my self-image in a really powerful way. It's hard to explain to those who haven't been there, but it's huge.
-Giving myself the perfect French manicure. What a feat! :-p

Things they can do for me:

-Hand on the small of my back or on my thigh while driving
-Gently moving my hair to the side before kissing my neck
-Nuzzling my neck to better enjoy my perfume
-Small, tasteful public displays of affection (back rub, quick peck, holding out my coat [yes, this counts], etc.). I think it's important to acknowledge your partner on a regular basis when appropriate and safe to do so.
-Spontaneous romantic gestures "just because."
-Cupping my face before/during a slow kiss. So sexy.
-The infamous butch smirk (or butch blush, depending on said butch). And to know that I caused that. Or the amused/devilish butch eyebrow-cocking. GAWD. How do you do that?
-Burying their face in my---WHAT? :-p

03-21-2014, 07:12 AM	#3
Asari Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: female ones Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: Germany Posts: 146 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 563 Thanked 274 Times in 90 Posts Rep Power: 4780808	Ironically the same thing that made me feel ugly in the past: swimming (and wearing a bikini). Once I'm in the pool I feel so light and smooth and while gliding through the water I'm aware of my whole body. Oh and skirts with over knee socks as well! __________________ “Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's needs, but not every man's greed.” Mahatma Gandhi

03-21-2014, 01:47 PM	#4
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,295 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Exercise and enough sleep. __________________ Reach out.

03-23-2014, 02:59 PM	#5
deedarino Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Woman Relationship Status: In recovery. Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Oregon Posts: 632 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,518 Thanked 1,955 Times in 496 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	i feel the most sexy when I am doing something considered masculine...chopping wood, working outside, fixing something (uber simple) on my truck. Just a touch of dirt and sweat... __________________ Squint your eyes and look closer. I'm not between you and your ambitions. I am a poster girl with no poster. I am thirty-two flavors and then some. And I'm beyond your peripheral vision, so you might want to turn your head~Ani I want to think again of dangerous and noble things; I want to be light and frolicsome; I want to be improbable, beautiful and afraid of nothing as if I had wings Mary Oliver

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02-12-2014, 10:12 PM	#1
Candelion Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her/you Relationship Status: He can till my field. Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Canada Posts: 1,317 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,396 Thanked 4,029 Times in 895 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Coming home from work and immediately diving into an entertaining story about my day. Overwhelmed by my adorableness (what? I can be adorable), hy pushes me up against the wall and kisses me hard. Okay, okay, hy was probably just trying to shut me up. But still...very sexy.

03-21-2014, 12:09 AM	#2
tiaras-and-books Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: in a relationship with someone wonderful. :) Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Alaska Posts: 72 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 90 Thanked 213 Times in 48 Posts Rep Power: 2206307	Dance classes make a big difference for me. I think it's partly that they help me let go of a lot of stress, plus endorphins, but I also think that it helps a lot in reconnecting me with my body. After a dance class I feel whole, engaged, and like my whole body is alive. I actually feel alive instead of just knowing it.

03-23-2014, 04:18 PM	#6
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Breathing....

04-24-2014, 12:02 AM	#7
Femmadian Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Isla Nublar Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,296 Thanked 2,400 Times in 362 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Things I do for me: -Smooth legs with a skirt and high quality heels to show them off -New makeup, and the good stuff, too! Stila mascara does wonders! -Freshly cut and straightened hair (after growing up with ringlets all of my life, being introduced to my first flat iron was magical! Being able to easily run my own fingers through my hair is such a luxury) -Hearing the clinking sound of my own jewelry as I move -Really nice and, er, supportive undergarments... -Putting my giant sunglasses on, windows down in my Jeep, feeling the wind in my hair, and catching a glimpse of myself in the rear view mirror and truthfully liking what I see. -Crossing my legs in a skirt. Sometimes it's the simple things. -Going to an art gallery/theatre/highbrow university event and feeling like I both look the part and belong there. Growing up working class, this is something that is important to me and boosts my self-image in a really powerful way. It's hard to explain to those who haven't been there, but it's huge. -Giving myself the perfect French manicure. What a feat! :-p Things they can do for me: -Hand on the small of my back or on my thigh while driving -Gently moving my hair to the side before kissing my neck -Nuzzling my neck to better enjoy my perfume -Small, tasteful public displays of affection (back rub, quick peck, holding out my coat [yes, this counts], etc.). I think it's important to acknowledge your partner on a regular basis when appropriate and safe to do so. -Spontaneous romantic gestures "just because." -Cupping my face before/during a slow kiss. So sexy. -The infamous butch smirk (or butch blush, depending on said butch). And to know that I caused that. Or the amused/devilish butch eyebrow-cocking. GAWD. How do you do that? -Burying their face in my---WHAT? :-p