Where are all the lesbian femmes that love us lesbian butches ???

[ForeverMe]

Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

I find few who are into the bf life,I get the "i'm a lesbian,not a femme",all I can say is..o.k. then drop the subject.I do meet some really nice ladies,again the age thing become's an issue as many are in the 20 to 45 yro age bracket,just wait one of these day's they will be 66.Really I do understand where they are coming from but it still could be just a friendship,heck you can't have to many friends,besides I would like to have some shared interest that being closer in age will have.

I find that really odd, the "I'm a lesbian, not a femme" statement. Do these people not understand that you can be both? I strongly identify as a femme lesbian. Of course many lesbians are not femmes, but there is nothing barring being both.

I find that in my area there are more 18-25 year old lesbians than probably any other age bracket. It makes it a little tougher to find friends or anyone with common interests. I'd love to still be 25, but I guess we can't go backwards.