Taking a Risk to Visit Someone You Met Online

WildHorses · 05-13-2014, 08:54 AM

To me it is about taking a bit of time to ask questions and LISTEN to the answers. If they tell you about their day and mention running someone off the road then that would be a NO. If they got drunk and ended up in a fight or jail, NO.

If you take some time to talk about what they do during the day or night it may help to get a better picture of them. Do they like to go out and party? Do they like spending time with friends and family? When they talk about things do they seem positive and generally happy? What interests do you share and which ones do they have that you do not like?

I think talking about the simple things in life are just as important as anything else. You can learn about a person's background (what they tell you) but does that mean they are the same now? If they talk about daily interactions with people, listen. It might give you a clue as to how they treat people.

My .02

05-13-2014, 08:54 AM	#19
WildHorses Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch/Big Heart/Rough Edge Preferred Pronoun?: Hy, She, Hym, Whatever, it really does not matter but do NOT call me lady! Relationship Status: Crazy over Genesis! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Northern CA Posts: 1,216 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,840 Thanked 2,426 Times in 917 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	To me it is about taking a bit of time to ask questions and LISTEN to the answers. If they tell you about their day and mention running someone off the road then that would be a NO. If they got drunk and ended up in a fight or jail, NO. If you take some time to talk about what they do during the day or night it may help to get a better picture of them. Do they like to go out and party? Do they like spending time with friends and family? When they talk about things do they seem positive and generally happy? What interests do you share and which ones do they have that you do not like? I think talking about the simple things in life are just as important as anything else. You can learn about a person's background (what they tell you) but does that mean they are the same now? If they talk about daily interactions with people, listen. It might give you a clue as to how they treat people. My .02 __________________ There's nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline, no matter how many times it's sent away. Sarah Kay

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