do Butches /Daddys have the green light to be rude and /or bossy in public ?

Mel C. · 05-17-2014, 08:27 PM

I dont recall a time where my femme/girl has pointed out my being rude or bossy. However, I do have a very short fuse sometimes so I have been rude/bossy. A gentle heads-up to let me know how my behavior appears to others might work...or might agitate me more. I think if I trust/respect the person telling me I'm being rude, I might be more able to snap out of it.

Added: I generally regret being rude even though I think I have a reason. There is a difference between rudeness and straight-forwardness, but I don't necessarily navigate the line between them very well

05-17-2014, 08:27 PM	#4
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,828 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I dont recall a time where my femme/girl has pointed out my being rude or bossy. However, I do have a very short fuse sometimes so I have been rude/bossy. A gentle heads-up to let me know how my behavior appears to others might work...or might agitate me more. I think if I trust/respect the person telling me I'm being rude, I might be more able to snap out of it. Added: I generally regret being rude even though I think I have a reason. There is a difference between rudeness and straight-forwardness, but I don't necessarily navigate the line between them very well Last edited by Mel C.; 05-17-2014 at 08:35 PM. Reason: I thought of more stuff

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