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05-21-2014, 05:52 AM
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Great thread!
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05-21-2014, 06:06 AM
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harsh demeanor, harsh talking ... BOOM it's over
more later ... must shower for work Girl_On_Fire, great idea for a topic! 
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05-21-2014, 07:31 AM
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-Sexist language
-Policing my behaviour with the idea that X, Y, Z isn't very "ladylike" (barf) -Calling their exes psycho, crazy, a "total bitch", etc -Someone who says they don't want "any drama" or "drama queens" (HUGE red flag - run!) ... When typing this my phone autocorrected "bitch" to "butch" seven times in a row... Apparently my phone knows me better than I do. 
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05-21-2014, 11:29 AM
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Bad grooming in general, but greasy hair is another bad one for me.
Also, chewing loudly. Cracking knuckles. Biting nails. Being inconsiderate and/or selfish, worse off if a person is downright mean. Someone who never reads and is proud of that fact. I find it interesting that I am able to much more specifically name what turns me off as opposed to what turns me on. o.0 |
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05-21-2014, 12:19 PM
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Not friendly
Doesn't treat me how I deserve to be treated Doesn't like animals
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05-21-2014, 01:09 PM
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WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?:
Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status:
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Overly negative...we all have bad days but if there are only bad days buh bye.
Overly needy... Poor personal hygiene... Insensitive to others... Dislikes animals... Overly harsh about exes... Frequently catty or harsh gossiping... I agree that turn offs are easier to define than turn-ons. There is a lot that doesn't work for me, but the stuff that does work is only a turn on when some people do it. |
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05-21-2014, 01:27 PM
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"I'm entitled to my opinion" will not only end all attraction for me, but also point out exactly where their jugular is.
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05-21-2014, 01:25 PM
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Someone who looks at their phone all the time instead of making eye contact or carrying on a normal conversation!
 
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