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-Sexist language
-Policing my behaviour with the idea that X, Y, Z isn't very "ladylike" (barf) -Calling their exes psycho, crazy, a "total bitch", etc -Someone who says they don't want "any drama" or "drama queens" (HUGE red flag - run!) ... When typing this my phone autocorrected "bitch" to "butch" seven times in a row... Apparently my phone knows me better than I do.
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Pixie Stick
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The arteest formerly known as musicfemme. Preferred Pronoun?:
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Bad grooming in general, but greasy hair is another bad one for me.
Also, chewing loudly. Cracking knuckles. Biting nails. Being inconsiderate and/or selfish, worse off if a person is downright mean. Someone who never reads and is proud of that fact. I find it interesting that I am able to much more specifically name what turns me off as opposed to what turns me on. o.0 |
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a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?:
Guess... Relationship Status:
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Not friendly
Doesn't treat me how I deserve to be treated Doesn't like animals
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Long-time Member
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WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?:
Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status:
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Overly negative...we all have bad days but if there are only bad days buh bye.
Overly needy... Poor personal hygiene... Insensitive to others... Dislikes animals... Overly harsh about exes... Frequently catty or harsh gossiping... I agree that turn offs are easier to define than turn-ons. There is a lot that doesn't work for me, but the stuff that does work is only a turn on when some people do it. |
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feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?:
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"I'm entitled to my opinion" will not only end all attraction for me, but also point out exactly where their jugular is.
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bitch, but she will do Join Date: May 2012
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any type of drama
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If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough" Albert Einstein Yes, I'm aware I can't spell, and no, I don't care quite enough to spell check. Sorry!!!
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Practically Lives Here
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the me me me syndrome
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Infamous Member
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cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?:
wild woman Relationship Status:
No, thank you. Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time…
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slovenliness....
laziness.... not getting along with my family....especially my kids dishonesty a know it all attitude
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elusiveness - I value someone who is direct about their intentions at all times
being occupied - If they cant give me their undivided attention, I immediately want to walk away |
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Junior Member
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Bad teeth for sure but cocky Spoiled rotten Butches who think nothing but thereself like get over yourself grow the F up
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Bad table manners. One of the quickest and fastest way to turn me off.
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Junior Member
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Stupidity and ignorance.
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Someone who looks at their phone all the time instead of making eye contact or carrying on a normal conversation!
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