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| View Poll Results: How do we date/partner/be single? | |||
| Single, not dating, not having casual sex | 
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	28 | 29.17% | 
| Single, casual dating/casual sex | 
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	8 | 8.33% | 
| Single, dating one person, no commitments | 
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	12 | 12.50% | 
| Seeing someone/partnered/married - closed relationship - monogamy or polyfidelity | 
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	36 | 37.50% | 
| Seeing people/someone, partnered or married - open relationships- nonmonogamy/polyamory ect | 
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	12 | 12.50% | 
| Voters: 96. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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			I'm just very curious about how this splits up here on the planet...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Single, not dating, not having casual sex vote for me
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Same here............small str8 town here, no lesbians anywhere the eye can see. LOL too busy taking care of my mom's needs and my own to go driving around town in Dallas an hour or more away to find a date and I don't do casual sex.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Durant doesn't have much I have to drive 2 hours or so, to okc.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Partnered and monogamous.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Have you found femmes that go for Butches in OKC? Just curious since I cannot ever find any.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I'm not butch so idk. I've only been to a club there once. Was worth the drive though.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Hell.. that's funny.  Ty!  I just thought there weren't any!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Looks like single no date/sex is in the lead.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Partnered/committed monogamous.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'm pretty blunt about being a girly girl that only goes for butch on OKCupid. There is a very rare butch 35+ on okcupid in my area. Usually poly.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	The ones that are out on cupid about being butch and are monog/poly/single/etc... Just plain out about being Butch and come in various different guises are all across the border in Seattle and further south. The only out ones here are poly and with a partner. Which is fine. I'm in school anyway. But I never get a write back. *shrug*  | 
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			Married, monogamous.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'm definitely single, and not dating.  That is because I haven't found anyone, though.  I'd happily go out with someone nice, that asked me out, right now, no matter what their age, as long as they were of legal age.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Too bad I can't change my answer on polls. I answered for Sunday but might want to change my answer tomorrow.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Single, not dating, no casual sex.  I need an attraction in order to be able to have sex with a femme.  And if there is an attraction, I’ll most likely try to date her.  
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Committed and monogamous..almost  married.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I got an error when I tried to answer the poll. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Uli does monogamish mean you have sex outside the relationship but not emotionally have other relationships? (Non-monogamy rather than poly)
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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