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| Single, not dating, not having casual sex |
   
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28 | 29.17% |
| Single, casual dating/casual sex |
  
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8 | 8.33% |
| Single, dating one person, no commitments |
  
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12 | 12.50% |
| Seeing someone/partnered/married - closed relationship - monogamy or polyfidelity |
  
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36 | 37.50% |
| Seeing people/someone, partnered or married - open relationships- nonmonogamy/polyamory ect |
  
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12 | 12.50% |
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10-13-2014, 01:03 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Partnered & monogamous. Between my previous 15 yr. relationship & my current one, I dated for about 3 years. My 15 yr. relationship ended with her death. For 2 years, I was just lost in the world. It was extrememly difficult to get back out there again. So far as for those 3 years, I wasn't serious about any of them.
I am a serial monogamist anyway. While dating, I did have casual sex, but only dated one at a time...some longer than others.
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10-13-2014, 01:50 PM
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I have never been a serial monogamist. I wasn't raised with it, my friends didn't practice it, I didn't really come across it until I went totally dyke 25/26 and started dating cross the border for butches. Then I was suddenly hit with "monogamy after the first date"
I didn't even really date before that. Hanging out with people, being friends, having sex and then one person becomes really special and I'd fall in love. Once the romance started, *then* the dating started. So I have tried since mid 20s to get a grasp on something I'll probably never get... |
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10-13-2014, 02:36 PM
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Timed Out - TOS Drama
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10-13-2014, 10:21 PM
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Single, not dating at the moment. Very little, if any opportunity for a trans guy in this small town as far as dating goes. If there were, I would prefer to date monogamously and see where that goes.
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10-14-2014, 01:27 AM
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Hmm where is the option for Single, no dating, having casual sex (I wish!)
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10-14-2014, 02:55 AM
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Senior Member
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Single casual dating AND/OR casual sex Like the slashes between the types of being partnered... I'm not dating right now. But I am up for fwb (casual sex) so that's what I chose. |
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10-14-2014, 03:17 AM
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Married, Poly, my sex is NEVER casual.. grin.. I take sex very serious.. I'm a professional like that... Not dating at this time..
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