What Do You Miss?

Orema · 12-21-2014, 05:23 AM

Sometimes I miss doing things as a couple like ....

Waking up late on the weekend and playfully arguing about who will get the paper or make the coffee, or who will run out for freshyly made muffins.

Occasionally flirting with each other as we independently walk around a bookstore or record shop.

Beating her at chess and dominoes.

Getting lost when driving around a new area and having fun while blaming each other.

Tender caresses after making love.

Sometimes ...

JustLovelyJenn · 12-21-2014, 01:08 PM

I miss snuggles and cuddles.

MsTinkerbelly · 12-21-2014, 01:20 PM

I miss hot water...darn tank went out this morning! Brrrrrrrrrrr

SleepyButch · 12-21-2014, 04:15 PM

I miss having the bare skin of another under my finger tips.

C0LLETTE · 12-21-2014, 04:26 PM

I miss the days when most women's clothes didn't come in size 0 and size -2.

imperfect_cupcake · 12-21-2014, 07:46 PM

I miss critical thinking type threads.

I miss super long verbal conversations with someone I am sweet on

I miss going out for dinner or the pub in dapper clothes

I miss big genderqueer-dyke regular events and being able to catch up with lots of people in one venue

I miss good Indian food, especially Bangladeshie

I miss Turkish shops

I miss three hour sex a thons

I miss dinner parties, a lot

I miss seeing groups of butches regularly. I got to do it recently and it was like standing by a waterfall and breathing ionized air. I felt totally refreshed and charged up. It's not the same seeing a butch here and there on the street or in the drug store or grocery store. Actually socialising, chatting, laughing and hanging out with *plural*, butches, makes me feel normal and happy. I miss that too. Gosh, my life may be queer, but it has very little butch - as group socialising - in it these days. I miss my femme mates, don't get me wrong, but I feel a bit like being on an island with lots of great people, except for the gender that gives you a lift, a complimentary tension and charge.

I'm not trying to fetishishise here but butches, can you imagine a world where there are no feminine women? Not even heterosexual ones? Not on tv, not in the magazines, not on the street (or if there is it's rare), it's all masculine women and men. Imagine how excited you get for a moment when you'd see one?

Yeah. That's kind of a femme thing a lot of us miss. Just seeing you all. Just for a moment.

girl_dee · 12-21-2014, 09:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honeybarbara

[SNIP} I miss critical thinking type threads.

[/SNIP]

I was just saying this in the chat room the other day. I am ready for some conversation other than what I had for breakfast, even though I love those short and sweet responses.

12-21-2014, 01:08 PM	#2
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,992 Times in 3,684 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I miss snuggles and cuddles. __________________ --Jenn

12-21-2014, 04:15 PM	#4
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I miss having the bare skin of another under my finger tips. __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

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12-21-2014, 05:23 AM	#1
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,582 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,436 Thanked 34,696 Times in 8,933 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Sometimes I miss doing things as a couple like .... Waking up late on the weekend and playfully arguing about who will get the paper or make the coffee, or who will run out for freshyly made muffins. Occasionally flirting with each other as we independently walk around a bookstore or record shop. Beating her at chess and dominoes. Getting lost when driving around a new area and having fun while blaming each other. Tender caresses after making love. Sometimes ...

12-21-2014, 01:20 PM	#3
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,909 Times in 5,019 Posts Rep Power: 0	I miss hot water...darn tank went out this morning! Brrrrrrrrrrr

12-21-2014, 04:26 PM	#5
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,175 Times in 4,340 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I miss the days when most women's clothes didn't come in size 0 and size -2.

12-21-2014, 07:46 PM	#6
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I miss critical thinking type threads. I miss super long verbal conversations with someone I am sweet on I miss going out for dinner or the pub in dapper clothes I miss big genderqueer-dyke regular events and being able to catch up with lots of people in one venue I miss good Indian food, especially Bangladeshie I miss Turkish shops I miss three hour sex a thons I miss dinner parties, a lot I miss seeing groups of butches regularly. I got to do it recently and it was like standing by a waterfall and breathing ionized air. I felt totally refreshed and charged up. It's not the same seeing a butch here and there on the street or in the drug store or grocery store. Actually socialising, chatting, laughing and hanging out with plural, butches, makes me feel normal and happy. I miss that too. Gosh, my life may be queer, but it has very little butch - as group socialising - in it these days. I miss my femme mates, don't get me wrong, but I feel a bit like being on an island with lots of great people, except for the gender that gives you a lift, a complimentary tension and charge. I'm not trying to fetishishise here but butches, can you imagine a world where there are no feminine women? Not even heterosexual ones? Not on tv, not in the magazines, not on the street (or if there is it's rare), it's all masculine women and men. Imagine how excited you get for a moment when you'd see one? Yeah. That's kind of a femme thing a lot of us miss. Just seeing you all. Just for a moment.