What Do You Miss?

imperfect_cupcake · 12-21-2014, 07:46 PM

I miss critical thinking type threads.

I miss super long verbal conversations with someone I am sweet on

I miss going out for dinner or the pub in dapper clothes

I miss big genderqueer-dyke regular events and being able to catch up with lots of people in one venue

I miss good Indian food, especially Bangladeshie

I miss Turkish shops

I miss three hour sex a thons

I miss dinner parties, a lot

I miss seeing groups of butches regularly. I got to do it recently and it was like standing by a waterfall and breathing ionized air. I felt totally refreshed and charged up. It's not the same seeing a butch here and there on the street or in the drug store or grocery store. Actually socialising, chatting, laughing and hanging out with *plural*, butches, makes me feel normal and happy. I miss that too. Gosh, my life may be queer, but it has very little butch - as group socialising - in it these days. I miss my femme mates, don't get me wrong, but I feel a bit like being on an island with lots of great people, except for the gender that gives you a lift, a complimentary tension and charge.

I'm not trying to fetishishise here but butches, can you imagine a world where there are no feminine women? Not even heterosexual ones? Not on tv, not in the magazines, not on the street (or if there is it's rare), it's all masculine women and men. Imagine how excited you get for a moment when you'd see one?

Yeah. That's kind of a femme thing a lot of us miss. Just seeing you all. Just for a moment.

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12-21-2014, 07:46 PM	#11
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I miss critical thinking type threads. I miss super long verbal conversations with someone I am sweet on I miss going out for dinner or the pub in dapper clothes I miss big genderqueer-dyke regular events and being able to catch up with lots of people in one venue I miss good Indian food, especially Bangladeshie I miss Turkish shops I miss three hour sex a thons I miss dinner parties, a lot I miss seeing groups of butches regularly. I got to do it recently and it was like standing by a waterfall and breathing ionized air. I felt totally refreshed and charged up. It's not the same seeing a butch here and there on the street or in the drug store or grocery store. Actually socialising, chatting, laughing and hanging out with plural, butches, makes me feel normal and happy. I miss that too. Gosh, my life may be queer, but it has very little butch - as group socialising - in it these days. I miss my femme mates, don't get me wrong, but I feel a bit like being on an island with lots of great people, except for the gender that gives you a lift, a complimentary tension and charge. I'm not trying to fetishishise here but butches, can you imagine a world where there are no feminine women? Not even heterosexual ones? Not on tv, not in the magazines, not on the street (or if there is it's rare), it's all masculine women and men. Imagine how excited you get for a moment when you'd see one? Yeah. That's kind of a femme thing a lot of us miss. Just seeing you all. Just for a moment.