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Old 03-07-2015, 07:35 PM   #1
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Y'all made my ovaries hurt.
Good lord.
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Y'all made my ovaries hurt.
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LMAO! So funny...and true !

I`ll come back to this thread when I`m a little braver.......

But I`m so happy to read such honest and open posts and and such rightly deserved respect for whatever our personal preferences are.

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LMAO! So funny...and true !

I`ll come back to this thread when I`m a little braver.......

But I`m so happy to read such honest and open posts and and such rightly deserved respect for whatever our personal preferences are.

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Don't be so shy and afraid to post, DC, it's all good here. No one knows you so why not open up and share. LOL
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Seems to me that when someone is between your thighs, you are either turned on or close to, by that time...but if you start stopping, at that point, to think things over and calculating the other person's butch/femme quotient, I'd be thinking that someone is being objectified and this may be a short trip.
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Seems to me that when someone is between your thighs, you are either turned on or close to, by that time...but if you start stopping, at that point, to think things over and calculating the other person's butch/femme quotient, I'd be thinking that someone is being objectified and this may be a short trip.
Who said they were stopping to calculate the other person's butch/femme quotient? I must have missed that post.

Re objectification, getting off on someone's masculinity or femininity is not objectification. Do you honestly think it is?
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My Butch usually prefers to give and not receive, but there are occasions where she does, I take full advantage. She fully enjoys it at this point and so do I. I sometimes will even orgasm a second time when I get the chance to taste her. So, yeah, I think most Femmes, unless they are Stone variety like to please their Butches in this manner.
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Ya know, I just miss having a loving partner, one that I can enjoy myself with, love and be loved by, and have the special occasions where loving her and her loving me in a sexual way is oh soo good.
It's been a while and I have memories but memories are one thing, the real thing is totally better. And I just can't do the casual sex thing, it's totally not for me.
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Seems to me that when someone is between your thighs, you are either turned on or close to, by that time...but if you start stopping, at that point, to think things over and calculating the other person's butch/femme quotient, I'd be thinking that someone is being objectified and this may be a short trip.
I realize that "if" is a very small word and easily overlooked. I apologize for not having typed it in bold, underline or italics...and any misunderstanding that may have ensued.
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I realize that "if" is a very small word and easily overlooked. I apologize for not having typed it in bold, underline or italics...and any misunderstanding that may have ensued.
The presence or absence of the "if" doesn't alter much. What response in this thread even prompted you to say this? Is this the way you think of butch femme people or people on this thread or? This is one of many dismissive remarks you have made over the years regarding butch-femme. You usually refer to labeling in these discussions. Your comments sometimes imply very respect for the thinking/decision-making/preferences of those who value the butch-femme dynamic.
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