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Old 08-10-2019, 07:49 PM   #201
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THIS will definitely be my go to song should I ever have another break-up!
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I don't have any breakup songs but I remember all the relationship songs. I think that you can probably tell how it will end up by the theme song.

Wait, a femme did send me the end song once "I had the time of my life. "

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I have really cling to Selena Gomez’s new song, Lose you to love me.

Breakups are sure not easy, just trying to stay on the positive side.

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Ps... I still don’t hate her
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The day Rico and I broke up, I heard this song on the radio and I tell you, It has helped me so much. I like great dance songs and this song has helped me to let go of all the dreams we both had for our life together. If you need a good song to help ya get over your love interest, I say this one is real good.

We had a clean breakup, but still, this song has helped me to process our breakup.

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I was listening to my playlists today, and I have a cheater titled one! Lol Thought of mister JT as I heard this. But definitely, what goes around comes around. KARMA? right

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I sent this to my ex many years ago (my second x). Here's a Quarter
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