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Old 03-12-2011, 06:17 PM   #1
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I have missed both of you, ever since I left Oakland. I treasure those memories, as I do all of the chat memories. Sweetness, I don't think you know how deeply you touched me. Thank you for all of the bops with the glass nail file, and the truffles shared, but most of all, thank you for your love. Max sends his best too.
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Aloha sweetcali. you touched me with your gentle smile and ways and I know it is time to say so long.

As we watch the sunset, we know you will be at rest ,and journey peacefully in the sunrise of life and love that has no end.

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I love you, Sweet.

You were always so kind to cheer us on through all of our big dramas... like our flood, your fire, our multiple tsunamis', your multiple girls, our move out of Cali, your move out of Salinas (yeah, remember that?!) and of course our daily chats to keep caught up on corsets, shoe-talk and the power of being femme.

You will not be forgotten. You left your mark on many of us here, in many different ways.

It my pleasure knowing you as I did, Sweet.

I ate a Godiva truffle in your honor today.
It was sweet.

Until we meet again, because somehow I feel like we will...

XXOO, ~CF (and bb)

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Aloha Sweet,
The Sun, Sea Turtles and a soft warm breeze await you my dear friend. Sending you Peace and Light. Much love to you, Mike.

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I never had the pleasure or honor to meet sweet. I know Mike (feels strange calling you this through chat and my thoughts are with you Mike, Sweet and your children.

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Sweet...when I first started coming to these sites...you were one of the first people to welcome me and make me feel at "home". Through the years, your kindness and generosity of spirit was a consistent presence. You are an amazing woman and I know you will begin your new journey with your ever-present strength and wit and nail file . Sending you all the love and positive light I have (and a truckload of truffles)
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Thinking of Sweetcali, Mike and Family today and everyday....

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Oh dear Mike,

FR just called me with this recent news. You and Cali and the girls have been in my thoughts, prayers, sendings to to universe every day for so long.

Now, I am thinking of Cali's wiry strength and wishing that she, you, her kids, and all her friends and family can have that kind of strength to hold on to her dearness in all of our hearts as she prepares to leave us.

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Oh dear Mike,

FR just called me with this recent news. You and Cali and the girls have been in my thoughts, prayers, sendings to to universe every day for so long.

Now, I am thinking of Cali's wiry strength and wishing that she, you, her kids, and all her friends and family can have that kind of strength to hold on to her dearness in all of our hearts as she prepares to leave us.

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--- My thoughts are with you and mike and the heathens at this point in time as they have been with you always.
My heart has felt your pain as of lately. forgive me for not being a good friend lately and have been wrapped up in my own bullshit. i think of your laughter at my jokes and being my friend despite me being a old billy goat. I am thankful for your friendship. when i like someone its forever despite anything. i had to laff at your truffles, nailfile(that hit me often it seems) and when u said your hair looked like a (gasp) "lesbian granola dyke".
i want you in this world but if you do have to go sarafemme, Lady Blackheart and my cat fergie will greet you. and will always know when you are around.Much love always to you Sweet-FR
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Wishing you, your family, your children and cali much love, peace and solace during this difficult time. Please know cali will forever be a part of you and will live on in your heart and mind. Tho I really don't know either of you I can tell you both are good loving people from the testaments offered here by others that did indeed know you. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
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K, we never met but we played well in chat. You were unfailingly kind when you weren't being a sarcastic, hysterically funny woman. I'm sad for never having met you.

Candles lit to light your way to the next stage of your journey. You are someone I will remember with joy.

Mike, words fail me. A candle is lit for you and yours as well.
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Sweet, sweetcali...I remember meeting you in Oakland. Every time I think of you, I think of that infectious smile of yours. I hope this next journey for you goes peacefully. June is right...this is some fucked up heinous fuckery.

Mike, you are in our thoughts also. May you find peace as well.
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