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			The Laugh Factory in Hollywood (Sunset and Laurel) continues their annual tradition of offering free Thanksgiving meals for anyone hungry.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			At 1PM, 3PM, 5PM, and 7PM, people will be welcomed. They will not only get a free meal, but they will be served and entertained by comedians. The owners do this on Christmas Day, too (though they are Jewish).  
		
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			I don't post much but wanted to stop by and say hello to all the Ca peeps. Hope ya'll have a great holiday season!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Same to you Virago! Thank-you
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Finally home from my European trip, so I have not had the opportunity to post this before, but I've been asked to speak on a panel tonight at California State University Northridge. Topic: Lesbian culture pre vs post stonewall, strongly focusing on how the bars became the center of our community. One bartender from each decade invited to speak. As a bar owner in the 80's and a bartender in the 90's I will be representing both decades. Invited by and moderated by Marie Cartier PhD, author of "Baby, You are My Religion; Women, Gay Bars, and Theology Before Stonewall" Location is The Gender & Women's Studies Dept, rm 340 http://babyyouaremyreligion.com/ Time is 7pm 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	"Baby You Are My Religion argues that American butch-femme bar culture of the mid-20th Century should be interpreted as a sacred space for its community. Before Stonewall - when homosexuals were still deemed mentally ill - these bars were the only place where many could have any community at all. "  | 
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			San Bernadino  Ca.  shooting at a developmental service bldg. so far 3 dead several hurt and the suspect or suspects in body armor is still in the bldg.  PRAY for these poor ppl who now have  become victims.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Dear SoCal friends, 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	We have the pleasure of hosting Chad and SaltyButch in San Diego Feb 12-15. We will be dining, visiting the zoo, going to Gossip Grill and celebrating Single Awareness Day of course. I believe there is a Singles dance (couples welcome) on Saturday with a red (devil) and white (angel) theme. Post here or PM me if you are interested in doing something with us.  | 
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			Less than 24 hours until SoCal is invaded by two handsome and kind butches. We will be out and about (zoo, dancing, burlesque show @ gossip grill, etc.) and welcome the company. There will be time for coffee and meals too. Don't forget to PM me if you don't already have my number.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Thanks for letting me invade butch weekend. I got to be an honorary butch! Yay! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			The San Diego Festival of Science and Engineering is a ten-day educational experience including 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	– interactive demonstrations – hands-on activities – dynamic speakers to engage kids and families in all that encompasses STEM (science, technology, engineering and math) The week kicks off with its largest event EXPO Day (March 5th) at PETCO Park. EXPO Day is free and open to the public. Hundreds of community businesses and organizations will participate in EXPO Day in addition to over 60 programs and events that will follow throughout the week all throughout the county of San Diego. More than 75,000 kids, parents, teachers, industry leaders and community members are anticipated to attend during Festival Week.  | 
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