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Old 06-11-2011, 11:42 PM   #1
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Always have a Date Night at least once a week.

Leave little notes (post-it) for them on the mirror when they wake or in their purse or lunch.

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Spend 1 hour (or longer) a week on "talking about how we are feeling" Learning to communicate

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Old 06-12-2011, 01:05 AM   #2
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Simply go the extra mile...
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Have a couple Red Stripes (or equally delicious beverage), watch The Hebrew Hammer, and play Mario Super Sluggers on the Wii.
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Compliment your partner! Say the things you said in the days when you were in a lustmance!
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For the love that all that is holy, above all else, Make a Good Choice!! Do not excuse bad behavior early in the relationship and think...."If I just love them enough they will change." It's not going to happen, in fact, it almost always gets worse. So trust your gut and believe that you deserve "xyz", whatever that is for you. Remember, we teach people how to treat us. /rant

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never forget the butterflies you first felt when you met them... :-)

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Don't let the pets sneak into the bedroom and wake him up when his alarm is going off at 5am...
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be committed,,, love is not just a feeling it is also a decision
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"A great relationship is based on two main principles. First, appreciate your similarities, and second, respect your differences."
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If you can't be truthful and honest at friendship level how can you be anything else , and also was there ever a friendship to start? It takes time to get to know someone.
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Go to bed together....and cuddle
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write love notes, we love that sorta thing!
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Listen with your head not your heart .. Sometimes you don't like to hear whats being said so you block it and get defensive ( I am guilty of this ) but listen and open your heart to whats being presented to you. ALWAYS kiss goodnight even when your mad. Make time to be a couple . I love date nite. We try at least once a week to check in with each other so the little things don't turn into big things ! Choose love always !
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Listen with your head not your heart .. Sometimes you don't like to hear whats being said so you block it and get defensive ( I am guilty of this ) but listen and open your heart to whats being presented to you. ALWAYS kiss goodnight even when your mad. Make time to be a couple . I love date nite. We try at least once a week to check in with each other so the little things don't turn into big things ! Choose love always !
Yaknow, this could be the secret for a perfect relationship.

Although i don't kiss when i am mad, i just want to be left alone.
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what to DO....

Be grateful that you have one because a lot of people don't. Cherish it and know that although its not always perfect, you are loved and with very little effort you can make it extraordinary.
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