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Old 11-11-2011, 11:05 PM   #1
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Y'all so inspire me.

I love the idea of being stingy with my time and energy. Hack, that just makes so much sense to me.

Oblivia, hugs. I can't even begin to fathom how painful that meeting must have been for the both of you.

Ciaran, hugs to you for being brave enough to disconnect from blood relatives because it was healthy for you.

To everyone who has taken the time to post here, please know that I am learning and growing from each of you. I still feel very sad about this distance that I've had to create and maintain but I do know it's healthier this way.
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Ciaran, hugs to you for being brave enough to disconnect from blood relatives because it was healthy for you.
Arwen - it wasn't healthy for me. The only healthy aspect was the reconciliation process.. Fourteen years is too long to hold a grudge - I know that to my pain / shame :-)

I'll make it up to my family in the long run.
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