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08-29-2013, 07:21 PM | #1 |
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ok i'm gonna be brave here and start this thread not sure where I wanna go with it other than just to do a simple discussion about lesbian femmes and do you or don't you enjoy your butch's pussy?
I know not everyone ID's on this site is okay with their female body parts so I am not trying to exclude or offend anyone from helping this discussion get started. I"ve not found anything like this on this site so here goes. I'm a lesbian butch myself and I personally enjoy my lesbian femme partner(when I have one) when she enjoys making love to me which entails oral sex on me, etc etc, etc and possibly other things. Without going into any detail from the bed room, lets just keep this a general discussion because what goes on in one's bedroom, I see it as sacred and private. Are there other folks on this site like me that feel this way? Where are you? I been looking but dont' see you around or am I just passing you by? Please feel free to discuss the topic in an open and friendly manner. I know that there are others that ID differently and don't have sex the way I do, and that's great. I accept them all as part of my community. I hope no one is offended. Thanks.
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I enjoy butch cunts way more than butch pussies.
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i like ALL the parts of my butch lover, the more She shares with me the happier i am!
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it's okay...
I get you and where your going....
You just wanna know if there was such as a thing as a butch clit FIESTA would would there be only one lone femme w/bottle a rocket and confetti?? We are here. I'm holding the pinata w/out a blindfold tho btw.
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I guess I never realized that the impression is that we are rare...kind of like unicorns. Heh.
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Not true. i think many are just private about what goes on during sexytime......... |
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I agree with dee..
Sometimes I think we.. generally... spend too much time being what is polite and lady like and yes, proper that we.. again generally hide the sexual side of ourselves.. too much. To protect the privacy of the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or
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Or .......
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I get that, though with me it's not for lady like reasons.
I just though it was a given that when people find each other hot there are plenty of ways to have fun that do not trounce on each other's boundaries.
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I find this thread refreshing actually.
In my experience, I have found many butches do not enjoy this as part of the intamcy they are comfortable with. I find it an honor if I am with a butch who will allow me to express love/lust/energy etc. this way. It is also very erotic and exilerating to me to be able to explore my partner and see how excited I can get them . When I am not restricted in this area. I can only speak for myself but I love to explore all areas of pleasure when it comes to pleasing a partner. If they allow that is. But I have also realized that fewer butches seem to explore this option. And again, in my own experience..It is usually the old school butches. This does not apply to everyone I know. I am one who usually does not speak out on intimate topics. But this one has crossedmy mind as well here and there. Abother piece of thought; For butches who have had issues allowing such because of masculine reasons..I have found that if this is done is such a way ..as to use it as an extension on a masculine level, then they also can enjoy it when normally it wouldn't be permitted. I hope I wrote that correct...ha
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Speaking a little more plainly, one could say, treat your butch's clit like a cock and Bob's yer uncle! Or rather Bob is yer very happy Butchy! |
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I've only been with one male id-ed butch but we only had sex a few times and it was so long ago that I can't really say how different it was from my other butch partners/lovers.
I must say I miss the smell and taste of a lover's cunt.
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I am still laughing over the idea that we are rare, like unicorns.
I don't think we are that rare. Are we?
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Thank you all for your responses.
I, personally, have found it difficult to find a femme willing to participate in this type of pleasuring of me sexually. I don't know how rare it is, I just know that those particular women just weren't interested. Needless to say, I stopped seeing them. So, me, I sorta feel like I'm a dying breed of butch, lmao. I've been out a long long time and it's taken much tenderness and love from good women to help me come out of my shell over the years and actually enjoy this part of myself. After a long hard look back, I no longer want to give up this part of my sexual likings. It's ok for others to do what they do, but I don't want to ever partner up again with a femme that isn't into butch pussy. Call me stingy, a pervert, whatever, but I Like what I like. LOL I am enjoying everyone's responses and thank you for keeping the thread going, I was quite afraid to talk about this in an open forum for fear of being chastized about it. I thought that by now someone else would have brought this up in a discussion, but I"m glad I did now. It's all good. No longer afraidy cat. lol
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I am a greedy girl Very very greedy. I am addicted to more.
That being said, along with the fact that I came out very late in life, I love the fact that I am a lesbian. To ME, that means being able to love, and have sexual fun, with a woman. I want to make love to their face, their lips, their necks, their breasts, their belly, their pussy, their thighs, their ankles, their toes. Every square inch of them, I want, I demand, I enjoy. I also am a Femme who has been deeply attracted to Butch women for most of my life. I love my wife's masculine energy, that part of her that makes her the butch she has always been inside. I am super turned on by the fact that my wife has a butch cock that she wears always. I love that when we are together I can reach over and feel her hardness. I love to lean down and take that cock into my mouth and make love to her like that. The fact that I can reach under that cock and feel her clit and sink my fingers into her pussy, with that glorious cock in my mouth, is a HUGE turn on to me. Or if, after a blow job or hand job (or both!), I move that harness up and climb between her legs to lick that clit and pussy, or even fuck her myself, it is all part of our dance. It is all on the table, you know? I get the best of both worlds, IMO. Yep, I am a greedy girl Whether I am like a unicorn as well, don't know and don't care. It works for her and I. But then again, she is addicted to more too, I think. the fact that I am a kinky-assed old lady helps a lot too!! HA!! APG |
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Considering that the clit is sort of a vestigial cock, a lot of butches look at that as their cock or small cock (see Butch Cock thread for reference, and for general fun reading) So, I don't think it's too rare to find a femme willing to suck either or both of your cocks
I've never heard a butch call it a pussy. But whatever you want to call it, make sure it gets all the love it deserves. <~Former "stone" femme However, I don't consider myself a lesbian (I'm queer), because I date those outside the traditional gender dichotomy, but that's semantics really. Everyone kind of has their own definitions around these words.
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