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A mother cat who eats the head off her new born kitten.
Ya know if a human mother did the same..that would definitely be an instant turn off for me. I think people are human beings with many faults and they don't always get it "right". I can't tell others they better be perfect, because I know for a fact that I'm not. Just don't eat your kids head off, cause that's like,not cool..and I wouldn't want to be around you after that. |
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Mean people who hurt others unjustly! Arrogance...I say I am cocky confident, but am NOT cocky arrogant...BIG diff! Alcohol excess Cruelty to others & animals Not being true to your core values Conceit
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When out on the date- and my date's phone rings- in the middle of the meal- and she answers- only to tell me that it is her ex asking advice about something.
Seriously? Oh, and she continues to eat while talking to said ex. Did I mention that was the ONLY date? |
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Whiners. Whining, pleading learn the difference. One gets you not invited to parties and the other, with any luck, gets you laid.
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Inability to apologize when wrong. I'm turned off by that now more than ever.
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Ex: I once had lunch with a potential new g/f and she asked about salad dressings. The waitress named off the usual- ranch, bleu cheese, thousand island, vinegrette and the house dressing. I can see asking to sample the house dressing, but this woman asked the waitress to bring her samples of ALL of them--during the lunch rush. Then she chose ranch. On a small side salad. She also asked questions about the rolls, the ingredients of several entrees and the entire dessert list. Being overly late. After 15 minutes is bad. At 30 minutes, I cancel. Another turn off is bad grammar. Supposibly and irregardless are the worst. Borrowing without returning, returning things in wrecked condition--basically everything my pushy new next door neighbor says or does. One quirky turn off I have is people making "air quotes" with the fingers. Sharing details of our sex life in a group of people, in an attempt to be funny. Needless to say, nose-picking, intentional belching and farting, or doing the usual bathroom things with the door open. I don't need to see anyone on the toilet, flossing, or otherwise spoiling the mystery of her beauty. Finally, the silent treatment or ghosting without any explanations. |
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I don't want to see flossing or other gross things either, but if a Butch wanted me to create some mystery around my allure, I'd immediately resort to wearing sweats, face cream, and do rags.
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Just like you said--flossing and other gross things, I'd rather not see. And I like a little mystery surrounding my love's allure. *Who doesn't? *A rhetorical question |
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That mysterious woman thing is sexist. Nothing that we do is so baffling that it can not be understood by another human being. Implying so puts pressure on women to maintain sexist standards of behavior.
Women are fucking ashamed of their sweat or the shape of their labia. Fuck that crazy shit. We are fully human, not fairies or aliens. We sweat, belch and excrete like everyone else. And if we choose to use beauty products or even to get cosmetic surgery, it is not magic. It's expensive, time-consuming effort that I hope most of us do primarily for ourselves, not to maintain the "mystery." Some people do this mystery femme thing playfully and by choice. All power to them. But saying everybody feels like this is sexist. Women are not mysterious, unless they want to be.
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What about taste testers?
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[QUOTE=Martina;1239683]I don't want to see flossing or other gross things either, but if a Butch wanted me to create some mystery around my allure, I'd immediately resort to wearing sweats, face cream, and do rags. QUOTE]
Do rags and sweats are hot.
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