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Old 03-12-2011, 04:35 PM   #1
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As many of you know SweetCali has been fighting cancer for the last 2 plus years. She is a fighter! We have been with hospice since Jan of 2010.

Right now shes needs your postive energy to help her make the transiton to her next adventure.

She had/ has big love for everyone here and has missed not interacting as of late, but trust me when I say she still has that sense of humor and a nail file to blop you with.


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Old 03-12-2011, 04:42 PM   #2
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Words can't express how to help her make that next transition or her next happy adventure
For all the pain and suffering she has been doing,
there has to be something better over the horizon
I certainly know as loved as she is around here, she'll be loved even more where she goes

My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours in this time of pain and sorrow
Keep all those memories in your heart and your head will have a whole lot of stories to tell
Peace be with you, always
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SweetCali, Mike, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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We will always be grateful for the Thanksgiving dinner and other such fuckery
festivities with which we have had the pleasure of your Company Sweet.





And grateful I never had to face a Bop o' da Nail File.




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Dearest Sweetcali,

What an amazing, loving, beautiful soul you are. You have touched the lives of so many people, and we are lucky to have experienced the joy of your friendship.

We all continue to lift you up in prayer and positive energy in hopes that your transition to your next big adventure is a peaceful one.




((((MIKE & family))))
May peace & comfort surround you during this difficult time. Sending love & light you way.
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May peace and comfort fill your hearts at this time of need.





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I've had the honor to know you, share meals with you, and road trip with you. You are the kindest of souls and your love means a lot. You are laughter wit, and one of the best human beings I know. It's gonna be ok, by this time next year I'll be driving Worm to some kind of basketball event or the beach hell even both.

It's time to go lil momma, we love you.

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sweetcali....all the best to you and yours.


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Mike and Sweet Cali...

Sending you all the love I have inside of me - You are not alone and loved by so many.

It is an honor to know you and to have shared time with both of you.

May your journey be peaceful and filled with great love.

I Love You!

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May the rest of her journey be filled with the love you share and all the peace you both can hold.
Blessings to you both.
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K,

I will always remember meeting You & Mike in Oakland......

My understanding is, that Your next big adventure is crazy wild! Melody's there, waiting for You......she has chocolate and an organizational list for You!

I am honored to have farmed with You......

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I knew the first time I laid eyes on her she was something special. I bet you did too, Mike


Sweet,

You are an amazing soul, a kind heart, and a generous spirit. We love you and are thankful to call you a friend. Our very best love to you and a wish for peaceful days ahead.

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The late football player, Walter Payton, once said, "Tomorrow is not promised to anyone." And, for quite some time it certainly was not to be promised for Kristin.

In her typical fashion, she energetically set about a series of final acts she considered essential to her peace of mind. She wanted nothing else except to take care of the people in her life she loved, and she courageously accomplished that.

During her own trial enduring chemotherapy, she managed cheerful phone calls to others facing their own challenges. When she made her decision to not endure yet another series of chemotherapy, her manner of communicating this was as graceful as I have ever heard.

She loved Mike. She loved her daughters. She loved this site. She loved many people here.

She was a wonderful friend to me and I love her and I will miss her.

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Mike

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful love. I wish you much peaceful comfort and may you be surrounded by so much love to carry you through this pain.

My deepest sympathy,
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Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.

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Bop her back, if you dare.

I have been wondering about Ms. Cali.

Please give her a bite of some really yummy chocolate,

And send her some zombie love.

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sweet love to you Cali and Mike as a new journey phases into you lives..our arms stretch around you and continue to embrace you and send you our greatest strength as a community.... unity. You never stop being part of us...even when you are quiet.... lots of chocolate flavored thoughts to send your way....
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