08-18-2016, 02:36 PM | #221 |
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for someone to be in that moment, its in the kiss, the touch, the pheromones....a gentle touch, a kind heart, & honesty, being able to actually communicate....
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08-18-2016, 04:46 PM | #222 | |
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08-26-2016, 04:50 PM | #223 |
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To feel appreciated, to be shown appreciation.
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08-26-2016, 04:57 PM | #224 |
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I have to be heard. I need hym to listen to me. And listen to me with the intent of understanding, not with the intent of changing my mind. We don't have to always agree, but I have to know I'm being heard.
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08-26-2016, 05:00 PM | #225 |
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This. I need to feel listened to. I need to feel accepted no matter what as well. And to feel valued. I also need a fair amount of attention.
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08-26-2016, 05:52 PM | #226 |
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The actions, efforts, simple things. I read between the lines/words.
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08-26-2016, 07:08 PM | #227 |
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thoughtful leadership, kind guidance, respect, meaningful kisses
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08-26-2016, 08:34 PM | #229 |
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Yes they do, they speak volumes, and I think that is what you can always count on.
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08-26-2016, 08:35 PM | #230 |
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I agree whole heartedly as well!
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08-27-2016, 07:34 AM | #231 |
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I need her to be respectful and it is shown through her actions.
I am talking about those intrinsic characteristics along the lines of but not limited to respect, ethics, character ... Here are some thoughts on that: To feel loved I need a woman who is honest, won't lie to me or intentionally leave out certain parts because I consider that withholding part of the truth (not telling entire truth) which to me is a subtle form of lying ... one who believes in me enough to realize I really have integrity which encompasses thing like being open and honest with her, won't lie to her, won't say or do things to evoke jeoulousy, won't betray her, cheat on her, realizes I know my humor can be somewhat goofy at times, I need a femme who can give in to her silly side I could go on and on but need to get up off this patio chair and get busy with my outdoor work. All of this does not matter anyway. I have been off the romance market for a very long time and intend to remain that way. I am content. |
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08-27-2016, 09:31 AM | #233 |
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It's hard to put into words what makes me feel loved. I'm not sure I even know half the time what will work during any given set of circumstances. I know we all have our issues and our baggage. Personally I have a lot of luggage. I'm no picnic for sure. But whatever it is I need, whatever it is it takes, my wife is doing it. Thirteen years and counting. I am so lucky she loves me. She just naturally finds the holes in my heart and somehow fills them.
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08-30-2016, 05:50 PM | #235 |
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I agree. For me, actions definitely speak louder than words...sometimes so much they scream!
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Appreciation, loyalty, to be told I have worth, cuddles, kisses, gentle touches, and honesty. I don't think that's asking too much
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