Summertime Truth or Dare

[clay]

Originally Posted by Novelafemme

I'd LOVE to play And I LOVE a good dare!!

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ok Ms. Novela..here ya go...write out a tastefully discreet fantasy on how you like for your wife to waken you in the mornings.....post it on the Sexiest Ways To Waken Your Lover From Slumber thread...I DARE you...grinz...
PS This is all in good, clean fun...mean no disrespect to either of you...

[gaea]

Originally Posted by ferret

Posting another truth for Gaea, and no offence was meant by the question. I thought it was just a good one.



When have you loved someone who hasn't loved you back?

No offense was taken...

honestly i think this is when I was married...i loved him (was not in love) or however i don't think he even knew my name lol...no he did he just didn't know how to love or show it or anything like that, by now he loves his kids and his grand daughters and that is evident...He helped give me 3 great kids..

[nycfem]

I'll take a truth from someone, please

[Hollylane]

Originally Posted by nycfembbw

I'll take a truth from someone, please

Truth be told....are you originally from NYC, and how much do you identify with being a New Yorker?

[nycfem]

I am originally from New York City but moved with my family to Ohio when I was a baby. I grew up there and left for New York when I was in my early twenties. Now I'm almost 40, and I'm completely identified with being a New Yorker. Perhaps it's ironic but I feel safest in an urban setting. I love the diversity, and it's a great place to be queer!

Originally Posted by Hollylane

Truth be told....are you originally from NYC, and how much do you identify with being a New Yorker?

[ferret]

Oh, gosh. I've fibbed, but I can't think of anything that sticks out to me - like a big whopper or anything. Maybe something along the lines of telling someone she was pretty when she really wasn't my type at all. I hate hurting someone's feelings, although not being truthful about that sort of thing is probably more hurtful in the end.

[ferret]

Kiwi,

I guess my first experience with anyone at 21 sort of made me feel like I was behind everybody else, if that makes sense. It didn't help any that I was at an all female college, with all sorts of pretty girls around, yet pretty much living like a nun. Not by choice, mind you. That make sense?

Sue

[The JD]

Fun thread! I'll take a truth, please!

[nycfem]

What's your favorite book and why?

Originally Posted by The JD

Fun thread! I'll take a truth, please!

[ArkansasPiscesGrrl]

Originally Posted by lusciouskiwi

APG: Have you ever farted while making love? Did you try and cover it up?

OMG, I am laughing out loud at THIS one!

Umm, yeah, I have. And although I *WISH* I could have covered it up, she was a bit too close, so to speak, for her not to know exactly what that was! I was absolutely mortified, of course, but we ended up laughing about it all.

This whole farting thing is huge for me anyway. I remember asking my grown kids several years ago for them to relate a story that they remembered from when they were growing up. Without discussing it in front of me, they all just looked at each other before one blurted out "You NEVER farted when we were growing up!" LOL And that was true! Different from their dad (who delighted in farting all the time, to their great delight when they were little), I could never do that in front of anyone. I mean, that is what bathrooms are for, right??? LOL

APG, clearly embarrassed now

[The JD]

Originally Posted by nycfembbw

What's your favorite book and why?

Wow, just one??

Judging from the number of underlined passages and notes I've scribbled in the margins, I'd have to say Boys of My Youth by Jo Ann Beard. I get engrossed in her life stories, but she's such a finely crafted writer that I'm just as fascinated by how she's telling them. It's like being caught up and amazed by some spectacular magic trick, while simultaneously getting to see (and be just as amazed) by how it's done.

On the fiction side, I'd have to say the Complete Collection of Carson McCullers for much the same reason--I like appreciating the craft as much as the plot.

[Novelafemme]

Originally Posted by claybaby

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ok Ms. Novela..here ya go...write out a tastefully discreet fantasy on how you like for your wife to waken you in the mornings.....post it on the Sexiest Ways To Waken Your Lover From Slumber thread...I DARE you...grinz...
PS This is all in good, clean fun...mean no disrespect to either of you...

Oooooo, FUN!!

OK, I will work on it tonight.

[clay]

Originally Posted by Novelafemme

Oooooo, FUN!!

OK, I will work on it tonight.

take your time....post here when you are done....thanks for being such a good sport, Nov!!!

[clay]

OKay., I am ready for a dare...again...with all these "truth requests", got to even the playing field....so come on..hit me with a great dare....

[LeftWriteFemme]

Originally Posted by claybaby

OKay., I am ready for a dare...again...with all these "truth requests", got to even the playing field....so come on..hit me with a great dare....

Pick three of your friends and post a nice long catching up visitor message........only you have to post it in a foreign language (if you need help with the translations let me know, I can help)

[clay]

Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme

Pick three of your friends and post a nice long catching up visitor message........only you have to post it in a foreign language (if you need help with the translations let me know, I can help)

all done..OMG that was so much fun...thanks lady!! You give awesome dares...smiles...

[aishah]

Originally Posted by nycfembbw

What is your current polyamorous arrangement and how's it working for you?

sorry for the delay, spent the weekend in detroit and wasn't on the computer as much as i thought i'd be!

i'm in a v relationship. i have one partner whom i've been with for about 7 years (r.) and one who i've been with for a year (c.). both relationships were close distance to begin with and are currently long distance, as they're in the process of moving to where i live now. both relationships are long-term and deeply committed - r. and i have lived together in the past, and we are all planning to move in together once everyone is in the same place. c. is definitely moving in the next 6 months; r.'s situation is more up in the air.

re: how's it working...the long distance has strained things a bit and may actually mean that the structure of my relationship with r. might change. things are working really well, though i think there might be a bit of growing pains if i were to introduce a new person but overall i feel really good about things. it's just frustrating waiting - c.'s really having a rough time where he is right now so we're all just ready for him to be in kansas.

i didn't plan for things to work out this way - i didn't enter into polyamory wanting any specific kind of arrangement, and i still don't - i'd be open to other styles in the future. it's just accidentally worked out like an episode of sister husbands or something and it works pretty well for us.

[Turtle]

Originally Posted by Parker

Ok then ..... heh.


ferret -- tell us about your first sexual experience with a woman.


Turtle -- a .... um, "multiple," if you will -- how and when did you first discover masturbation and how often do you masturbate?

Jeez, can I have Ferret’s truth?? And she kinda skipped outta here on that one, just sayin…
I always played with myself? Got good at it by 11 or 12?
And now? A couple of times a day if the hormones are flowing…not for a couple of weeks if the hormones are not flowing.


Lordy, folks, it's gettin dangerous in here!

[clay]

^5 Turtle...you are a great sport...good job...

[Parker]

Seeing all of those visitor messages with the word VAGINA splashed across them, I had to come in here to see if it was a dare or just you all acting crazy!

lol, seeing it that many times, it looks like a damn battle cry on my page ... Vagina!! -- like Tawanda!! only better.