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Let me know what you think of the book Fancy, I hope you loved it as much as I did. Just be patient,when it comes to the richard side of things, there is a lot more than in the film. |
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I am watching The Day The Earth Stood Still (1951).
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I just watched Truman Capote's A Christmas Memory...
One of my favorite clients burned me a copy. I hadnt seen it in years....it made me cry....as always....
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Went to see The Danish Girl & Joy yesterday.
So firstly, The Danish Girl. I will not say much about this film, because frankly this is a must see film. If you don't go to the cinema very often, then I ask you to make the effort to do so. For me personally, I simply adored this film. The acting was exceptional, and Alicia Vikander's performance was nothing short of perfect. This film is so moving, I found I was totally engaged with them on their journey. You feel what she, he and Lilly feel. Take ya tissues because this will have you at some point wiping ya eyes. And if it doesn't, well ya just cold hearted. So to the film Joy. On the whole a good film, all the cast carry it very well. Maybe a tad too long. I liked it, but its not one I would buy on dvd. For me it was a case of I have seen it once, so I wouldn't want to see it a second time. |
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I watched Hustle and Flow with my girlfriend last night.
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Stars: Alan Rickman, Yasiin Bey, Kyra Sedgwick
A dramatization of the relationship between heart surgery pioneers Alfred Blalock and Vivien Thomas. I enjoyed the movie but the injustice to Mr. Thomas was a bit overwhelming to witness! |
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Started watching The Rite (Anthony Hopkins 2011) the other night, and promptly fell asleep. Either it wasn't interesting enough to keep my interest or I was just worn out.
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I fell asleep. I may watch it again, but probably not. I watched about half before falling asleep and there wasn't enough emphasis on food, for me. |
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I liked it. Wished they had used an actor better at African accents (i.e., Idris Elba). Maybe they were hoping Will could sell more tickets than someone less known or less bankable. Still, I enjoyed it. |
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Think I stream it on demand tonight that and I was thinking the hateful eight but I don't enjoy vile movies vexs my spirit, why did you feel it vile? |
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I remember watching that movie. It was slow...and difficult in many places. No this best movie for sure. The potential was there...just no follow through..
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This is a Fresh Air interview with director, Todd Haynes, and Phyllis Nagy who adapted the screenplay for "Carol."
Click here to visit the Fresh Air web page and click here listen to the interview. ![]() Director Todd Haynes believes love can blossom in the most improbable circumstances. Take his new movie, Carol. The film tells the story of an affair between the title character, a married 1950s socialite (played by Cate Blanchett), and Therese, an aspiring young photographer (played by Rooney Mara) who is working in the toy section of a New York City department store. They meet while Carol is buying a Christmas present for her daughter. Haynes tells Fresh Air's Terry Gross that the connection the women make in the store is a "curious leap" that takes them both "out of their worlds." "I think there's something so lovely about that being the way love often begins — in the most irrational, inexplicable sort of circumstances where you put yourself out there and you keep going, 'What am I doing? Why am I here?' " Haynes says. "But you keep going back. Both women do it." Phyllis Nagy adapted the screenplay for Carol from the Patricia Highsmith novel The Price of Salt. In her early 20s, Nagy met and befriended Highsmith, a lesbian writer who spent much of her adult life in Europe. Nagy says the story is extremely forward thinking, especially considering it was originally published in 1952. "As far as I'm aware, it was the first relatively mainstream lesbian novel to be published that included not only a relatively happy ending, but it did not include the death of one of its lesbian heroines, or one of them going to an insane asylum or nunnery," Nagy says. Nagy notes that Highsmith initially published The Price of Salt under a pseudonym, perhaps because the novel was so personal in nature. "It was difficult for her to take ownership of it as a writer for many years," Nagy says. "I was never sure if that meant she just didn't like it, or if she was so personally attached to the novel that she couldn't afford psychically, or psychologically, to claim ownership of it until the late '80s." INTERVIEW HIGHLIGHTS On Therese and Carol Nagy: Therese Belivet ... is at a stage in her life, early 20s, where she is searching for the keys to her future. She's a bit reticent; she's immensely curious, a bit like a sponge, and responds to everything with an alarming honesty — much like Pat Highsmith herself, whom I knew. So Therese is her alter ego. Carol Aird is older, married ... and she is a melancholy creature. She is not a happy-go-lucky socialite. The circumstances of her life don't sit well with her, or comfortably. On the elements of Highsmith's novel that Nagy most wanted to keep in the screen adaptation Nagy: Two things. One was the radical way in which Patricia Highsmith addressed the sexuality of the protagonists in the novel as natural, as breathing — no particular thought given to what sexuality means to these women — but also an insistence on ignoring, more or less, the naysayers, which was another aspect of the novel that was profoundly radical. The second part of the things that I think makes the novel really resonate even today is Highsmith's particular view of motherhood and what makes a good mother. On how The Price of Salt was received compared to Highsmith's other novels Nagy: I think that Highsmith was very surprised by the impact that The Price of Salt had on publication. And even in the years, four or five years, following its publication, she would receive the most amazing letters from people — of course, they were addressed to [her pseudonym,] Claire Morgan — talking about how the book had touched them profoundly, changed their lives. She wasn't used to that. Certainly no one was going to say that [her 1950 book] Strangers on a Train changed their lives in quite that way, or even [her 1955 book] The Talented Mr. Ripley. On what Nagy learned from Highsmith about being a lesbian in the '50s Nagy: I think what I learned from Pat about being gay in the '50s, and from friends of hers that she introduced me to, it was a window on a very particular subset of lesbians. Pat herself, I always like to say, was like the studio boss of lesbians in that she was right there chasing women around couches and throwing them down onto beds. ... I thought at first that she was probably just pumping up her own reputation as a lesbian stud, but, in fact, her peers — the women that she chased, many of whom actually did remain friendly with her — confirmed those stories. And these women were all vaguely of the Carol Aird set. So I felt as if I knew exactly who Carol Aird was. ... I think the married women suited Patricia Highsmith, who famously did not like to live with people or have that kind of attachment that most reasonable people after a time expect. ... With married women, that was rarely possible. So they were, I'd say, the Euro-[equivalent] of wealthy, suburban, mostly married and secretive; women who probably, in 1952, are on prototypes of antidepressants and drank a lot and smoked a lot, like Highsmith herself. On Highsmith trying to date men at one point Nagy: The unwholesome truth about Pat is she was a lesbian who did not very much enjoy being around other women. So the attempt to dabble with one man seriously, and perhaps a few others along the way, was to just see if she could be into men in that way, because she so much more preferred their company. Pat would've been a great member of [Mad Men's agency] Sterling-Cooper ... and really, I think, that was the formative psychological trait ... that she really didn't like women. She liked to have sex with them and she liked them to go home and shut up, but she much preferred the company of males. On whether Haynes had reservations about being a man directing a movie about lesbians Haynes: No, I did not. Or at least, what I felt was this was a tremendous, beautiful opportunity for me to explore this story as a gay man and as somebody who has been in love and who's been in Therese's shoes. ... I felt like I had that common and universal and poignant experience in my own history and my own memory and that's what's so unsentimentally and beautifully described in the novel to begin with. ... And I have to say, so many of my dearest, closest friends in the world are gay women and this, in many ways, was sort of like: "This one's for all those [women] who've meant so much in my life." Let me know if y'all think this should go in the "Listening" thread. ![]() |
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I saw "Carol" last night in the theatre (after readin the book over the weekend).
I thought it was crap. I considered leaving but kept hoping there would be a good sex scene, since a gay man directed it (with which I take issue). Thanks for posting these interview parts, though, Orema- maybe I'll have more compassion.
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![]() Good film but not great. I always enjoy watching DiCaprio movies but the subject matter was too thin to make this an enjoyable and riveting plot. It was an okay film. I loved the bits with the whales (great cinematography) and was rooting for them to attack and escape man's greed. |
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What ruined it for me was the pointless violence. I understood the violence in Reservoir Dogs, Pulp Fiction, Django, and Jackie Brown. There was a purpose for the violence in those films (IMHO), and sometimes I even found the violence creative or clever in his films. But not in in this. The violence seemed solely for shock value. It never moved the story along, it didn't give me any insight to the the perpetrator nor victim, it wasn't creative in any kind of way. It was just violence for the sake of violence. And for three hours? I felt terrible after watching it.
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