Here come the lesbians, here come the leaping lesbians... - Page 15

Melissa · 08-01-2011, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam

Some of our members are having a difficult time seeing the lesbians in our community. Please step up, and let them know you are here.

Lesbian in the house

Melissa

Heart · 08-01-2011, 02:50 PM

As someone who was involved in the serious BV discussion in this thread,(and I don't think that was just about butches), I had NO issue with the light posts that were interjected. They didn't bother me one bit. Seems like a lot of energy has now been spent back-and-forth making assumptions about people's intent and scolding them.

But eh, happens all the time.

I can remember occasions when I did feel that someone's thread flirting was intruding on the conversation when I did feel fragile in threads, when I did police discussions, when I did storm off in a huff, when I did feel unfairly chastised or moderated, and when I most certainly did decide never to post on the boards again.

lol.

tapu · 08-01-2011, 03:12 PM

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Tapu -- Your recent posts seem (to me) a little tantrumy, like "If I can't say what I want, then I don't want to say anything at all".

June--I don't think I should be allowed to say anything I want and I never even began to throw a "tantrum" about that. I said "Hey, how about them red sox?" and delivered it in a way that fit in perfectly with the flow of the thread. I wonder if the one person who took offense at that had been following the thread. It didn't seem that she got the context at all.

And then here's just something I ask you to consider: Was my saying that about the red sox really as offensive as you telling me I'm "tantrumy"? My remark was not to any one person, and was not an insult couched in terms of "to me."

I think that what's going on here is subtle in a lot of ways and I plan to reread and think about it, to see if there's something I think I should have done differently. Presently, I'm not feeling at fault.

tapu · 08-01-2011, 03:34 PM

No, not really. I see no distinction between 'tantrumy' and 'take your toys and go home.' And i think it's a side issue anyway. I would be more concerned about people feeling like they can't post without someone jumping down their throats. Regardless, I am planning to stick around and get more of a feel for things. I don't like to judge based on just a few experiences. I also believe that people can learn. Thank you for your responses.

tapu · 08-01-2011, 03:38 PM

I did pick up on that. Which is amazing since usually I'd be saying, "Red Sox, that's baseball, right? The round white ball with the pretty red stitching?"

08-01-2011, 03:39 PM

Baseball? Is that like rounders?

tapu · 08-01-2011, 03:42 PM

You have to remember that it's not the teeny white ball that people hit with the skinny stick. It's the bigger white ball that people hit with the larger stick.

Wait, what's the thread topic?

girl_dee · 08-01-2011, 03:46 PM

I am taking offense to the BEST baseball team in the history of baseball being used and abused in said June joke.

08-01-2011, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by tapu

You have to remember that it's not the teeny white ball that people hit with the skinny stick. It's the bigger white ball that people hit with the larger stick.

Not cricket then?

Kobi · 08-01-2011, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by sassy_girl

I am taking offense to the BEST baseball team in the history of baseball being used and abused in said June joke.

I am a die-hard Red Sox fan. I am used to be used and abused and made haha at. It's part of our charm, history, and culture.

At least she wants us to get a butt load of touchdowns

Heart · 08-01-2011, 04:19 PM

In reference to BV, I am cross-posting this blog link in a couple of threads.

http://butchenough.wordpress.com/201...pe-not-a-line/

Carry on.

OS Butch · 08-01-2011, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by tapu

You have to remember that it's not the teeny white ball that people hit with the skinny stick. It's the bigger white ball that people hit with the larger stick.

Wait, what's the thread topic?

The wee white ball hitting with the little stick...That would be golf....Lesbians play golf, and I definitely leap when I make a birdie

Dreams · 08-01-2011, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by tapu

You have to remember that it's not the teeny white ball that people hit with the skinny stick. It's the bigger white ball that people hit with the larger stick.

Wait, what's the thread topic?

ok so isnt that pool?...

it's all about perception i suppose.

dixie · 08-01-2011, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Dreams

ok so isnt that pool?...

it's all about perception i suppose.

*perk* Ok, if it's pool I'll be leaping. I have a few sticks for that. Who's game?

tapu · 08-01-2011, 05:56 PM

Damn. I don't swim.

OS Butch · 08-01-2011, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Dreams

ok so isnt that pool?...

it's all about perception i suppose.

Oops, maybe I was wrong....I hate when that happens!

christie · 08-01-2011, 06:12 PM

Waterwings rock.

dark_crystal · 08-01-2011, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by christie0918

Waterwings rock.

marco!

Dreams · 08-01-2011, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by dixielady

*perk* Ok, if it's pool I'll be leaping. I have a few sticks for that. Who's game?

for the record...i'm refuse to get anywhere near Dixies sticks..it scares me just a bit..

P.S...POLO!!!

tapu · 08-01-2011, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by dark_crystal

marco!

I always wanted to name a cat Marco and then go around the neighborhood yelling, "Marco!"

08-01-2011, 03:34 PM	#284
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,114 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	No, not really. I see no distinction between 'tantrumy' and 'take your toys and go home.' And i think it's a side issue anyway. I would be more concerned about people feeling like they can't post without someone jumping down their throats. Regardless, I am planning to stick around and get more of a feel for things. I don't like to judge based on just a few experiences. I also believe that people can learn. Thank you for your responses. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

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tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,114 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	You have to remember that it's not the teeny white ball that people hit with the skinny stick. It's the bigger white ball that people hit with the larger stick. Wait, what's the thread topic? __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

08-01-2011, 05:56 PM	#295
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,114 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Damn. I don't swim. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

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Heart Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: rainbows! Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: NY Posts: 466 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 303 Thanked 2,522 Times in 409 Posts Rep Power: 12032610	As someone who was involved in the serious BV discussion in this thread,(and I don't think that was just about butches), I had NO issue with the light posts that were interjected. They didn't bother me one bit. Seems like a lot of energy has now been spent back-and-forth making assumptions about people's intent and scolding them. But eh, happens all the time. I can remember occasions when I did feel that someone's thread flirting was intruding on the conversation when I did feel fragile in threads, when I did police discussions, when I did storm off in a huff, when I did feel unfairly chastised or moderated, and when I most certainly did decide never to post on the boards again. lol.

08-01-2011, 03:39 PM	#286
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Baseball? Is that like rounders?

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Heart Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: rainbows! Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: NY Posts: 466 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 303 Thanked 2,522 Times in 409 Posts Rep Power: 12032610	In reference to BV, I am cross-posting this blog link in a couple of threads. http://butchenough.wordpress.com/201...pe-not-a-line/ Carry on.

08-01-2011, 06:12 PM	#297
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