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Old 09-12-2012, 10:30 PM   #3041
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Good evening lofters. I hope this finds everyone well. Anyone have some rain they will send to Texas ? Would love to hear some .....
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Good morning and Happy Thursday MS, LipstickLola, yotlyolqualli and Ruthie!

I am substitute dog walking this week and all next week, so I have time to pop in and say howdy!

Nice to see new folks wander in. Welcome Uniqueswtfemm, pamcat and DMW.

I hope I didn't miss anyone, I didn't scroll too far back!

Funny thing...or maybe odd. I join a dating site, cupid something or other. Just like here, you can see who visits your profile. So since I have so much time this morning I went see if there was any activity. I did have a visitor...A straight single gal Ok, so maybe I still am not ready to join the dating pool!

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Good morning and Happy Thursday MS, LipstickLola, yotlyolqualli and Ruthie!

I am substitute dog walking this week and all next week, so I have time to pop in and say howdy!

Nice to see new folks wander in. Welcome Uniqueswtfemm, pamcat and DMW.

I hope I didn't miss anyone, I didn't scroll too far back!

Funny thing...or maybe odd. I join a dating site, cupid something or other. Just like here, you can see who visits your profile. So since I have so much time this morning I went see if there was any activity. I did have a visitor...A straight single gal Ok, so maybe I still am not ready to join the dating pool!

LOL, that made me laugh! When I chekced out the profile I have on a dating site, the only one to visit it, has been my ex LOL! Maybe it's not "we" that aren't ready to join the dating pool, perhaps the dating pool is not ready for us!!

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morning Loft dwellers and peekers
come ONnnn you peekers.... at least say HI.. lol
ever notice how there always seem to be way way more guest then members on line here?? why is that???

Jo ..... i tried cupid, i tried lesbian matchmaker annnnnd plenty of fish , and that zoo thing on FB , well all the matches they give me are all ladies, femm types... or the ones that do send me a wink or ice breaker or viewed my profile are , straights, bi curious . femme types...
then there's butchfemmematchmaker .... and well i have 734 matches there, yayyy!! all butch/tg's etc...... but no one is really even giving me a notice.. soo i dont know what im doing wrong... maybe im to old?? fat?? boring?? who knows.. i give up. id give anything to find the right one to have a long happy relationship with , have a comfy home and build a life together ,some seem to not want work on things to make the value of there realtionship stick, to build it to be a stronger bond.. some seem to throw away relationships to easily, and not except the good with the bad. They seem to want to hold out for some 100% perfect partner to come along and fall into there lap and live happly ever after. it doesnt work that way.
and so some out there just dont get it.
ok thats my thought on that.. LOL

im hanging in Clarksville TN this morning... and wlaly world here is calling my name.. and ha i think i spotted a mall across the street... but i kinda need a art supply, and im to far from my favorite art store bk in Nashville ahh well.
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Soooo, when the going gets tough, the tough get going, right? Where am I going? hahahaha

Hello all. Dating sites? I've had zero luck....I think there should be classes I could take, lol.

Gorgeous weather here in the east, going to try and venture outside today, with caution!!

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LOL, that made me laugh! When I chekced out the profile I have on a dating site, the only one to visit it, has been my ex LOL! Maybe it's not "we" that aren't ready to join the dating pool, perhaps the dating pool is not ready for us!!

Have a great Thursday!!
That is pretty funny! I definitely like your way of thinking!
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Hello lofters and peepers... Hope everyone is having a great week. Almost to an end! lol I can't wait! I babysit tomorrow night after work. Sat I work my second job. Hopefully can find something fun to do on sat night or on sunday!

Have a great weekend folks!

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Im camping out by some woods, in ky ,and walked thru a spider web, that wad attached to my truck already craps..... anyway am wher I have to pik up as load in the early morning and will b headng to west Memphis....

Anyone have marshmallows ??
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Hello! New to BFP, 53 year old Femme from southern Delaware - hello! I was actually directed to BFP because of the "fine wine" forum - I asked "where are the older butches and femmes?!?" on a facebook page and was lucky enough to be directed here!

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LOL well, if you haven't done so already, please make sure that the word "butch" is in your profile because it's hard as anything to find butches there, but I did discover a keyword search that you can use, and have been finding at least some profiles of interest (including the sweet butch I'm currently dating) but still, most of the profiles that come up are saying "No butches" or "I'm looking for a butch." You'd likely have better luck with Femme as a keyword! And if you happen across one in Delaware...
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LOL, that made me laugh! When I chekced out the profile I have on a dating site, the only one to visit it, has been my ex LOL! Maybe it's not "we" that aren't ready to join the dating pool, perhaps the dating pool is not ready for us!!!
LOL! Funniest dating site story was when a generic lesbian friend came over to my house after being dumped by the woman she was dating, and immediately started looking through one of the dating sites. She got all excited about one particular profile -- same area she was in! so many of the same interests! funny! seemed intelligent!!

It was the profile she'd posted the year before and forgotten about. She wanted to date herself.
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Im camping out by some woods, in ky ,and walked thru a spider web, that wad attached to my truck already craps..... anyway am wher I have to pik up as load in the early morning and will b headng to west Memphis....

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Good evening MS....No marshmallows here....Did you know you can toast a marshmallow with a bic lighter?
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Hello! New to BFP, 53 year old Femme from southern Delaware - hello! I was actually directed to BFP because of the "fine wine" forum - I asked "where are the older butches and femmes?!?" on a facebook page and was lucky enough to be directed here!



LOL well, if you haven't done so already, please make sure that the word "butch" is in your profile because it's hard as anything to find butches there, but I did discover a keyword search that you can use, and have been finding at least some profiles of interest (including the sweet butch I'm currently dating) but still, most of the profiles that come up are saying "No butches" or "I'm looking for a butch." You'd likely have better luck with Femme as a keyword! And if you happen across one in Delaware...
Welcome to the Planet Dance-with-me.

I use the same name there as I do here, so yes, it says Butch all over....Funny thing is the quivers they send me are mostly Butches too....Hello?! My high matches are with the Butchly sort. And I do run into many that say no Butches.
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It was the profile she'd posted the year before and forgotten about. She wanted to date herself.
Good thing I had set my coffee down or my computer would be a mess right now...
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It was the profile she'd posted the year before and forgotten about. She wanted to date herself.
Lol ....... to funny....
Never heard the term ...... generic lesbian bfor.

Ha , yes OS ... I have ... lol
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Found you - and you were already added to my favorites list. Just hadn't contacted because even though the Butch I'm seeing and I are clear that we're not currently exclusive or serious, with the chaos in my life right now I really can only handle dating one person at a time. But... yeah. You just didn't notice someone else checking you out -- or, the story of a femme's life, you thought I was a straight girl.
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Found you - and you were already added to my favorites list. Just hadn't contacted because even though the Butch I'm seeing and I are clear that we're not currently exclusive or serious, with the chaos in my life right now I really can only handle dating one person at a time. But... yeah. You just didn't notice someone else checking you out -- or, the story of a femme's life, you thought I was a straight girl.

Really? LOL! Yanno, I have messaged several women and never get a response, probably because of my Butch presence. It is discouraging as it is very hard to send a note to a complete stranger and then not get a response. Not even a I don't date Butch Women.Now I am gonna have to go see who has visited my profile! Favorites? What is that?!
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Old 09-13-2012, 10:01 PM   #3060
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Really? LOL! Yanno, I have messaged several women and never get a response, probably because of my Butch presence. It is discouraging as it is very hard to send a note to a complete stranger and then not get a response. Not even a I don't date Butch Women.Now I am gonna have to go see who has visited my profile! Favorites? What is that?!
Try finding a Butch woman, willing or interested in dating a femme who also happens to be Mennonite and dresses like one. lol That's discouraging and it's even worse when people say, "maybe you should rethink "dressing" the part". To me, that's like saying I should change who I am, my values, traditions, culture and beliefs, JUST to find a partner.

I'm me and I won't change for anyone. Even if it means spending the rest of my life alone. Wearing plain clothes isn't a fashion statement or a preference... it's a way of life, a code of conduct, a statement of faith. Denying it would be like denying a very integral part of who I am.

Never having a once in a lifetime love, is far better than living a lie and never truly loving myself because of it.
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