Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet? - Page 162

kittygrrl · 01-21-2013, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by dixie

very cute! #3 is amazing...

JustLovelyJenn · 01-21-2013, 10:25 PM

I might have a crush or two... of varying degrees... but they are safely tucked into my secret pocket, and staying there... *nods*

TheMerryFairy · 01-21-2013, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

I might have a crush or two... of varying degrees... but they are safely tucked into my secret pocket, and staying there... *nods*

I can completely respect this attitude! I am the same way

Parker · 01-21-2013, 10:56 PM

Yeah, I have a crush - I stepped up and told her in private a couple of nights ago.

dixie · 01-21-2013, 11:10 PM

Ok...I'll admit...I have crushes. Some are long-time crushes, some are more recent. None are aware, nor will they (probably) ever be lol

jcisbutch · 01-21-2013, 11:12 PM

maybe....could be too soon to tell...

deb0670 · 01-21-2013, 11:13 PM

yes crushing.

justanolecowboy · 01-22-2013, 12:06 AM

Absolutely!

GraffitiBoi · 01-22-2013, 12:13 AM

Hmmm... besides crushing on myself... LOL I have some 'friend' crushes on here. Otherwise my only actual crush at the moment is someone not on the planet. It's someone at work, unfortunately. I do not mix work and romance. So sad cuz rumor has it she crushes on me too.

StrongButch · 01-22-2013, 08:07 AM

I really meant it as a joke. The only thing im crushing on now is this awesome camera. Keep crushing folks.

Ciaran · 01-22-2013, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by TheMerryFairy

That's what I meant. It would depend for me LOL Sometimes I don't mind when more than one person crushes on me. I usually have at least two - but in different ways, typically.

Anyway, depending on the crush I could leave it be, flip a coin or hand off the swords. Then again, if someone has a crush on my crush and I'm serious about it, my scots temper may come out! LOL

If more than one person has a crush on me (it does happen but it's as rare an occurrence as the number of times that Rush Limbaugh comes out with a statement that could be perceived as "liberal"), I usually take away all pressure from myself and decide on the basis of which crusher would be most likely to let me wear her high heels.

JustLovelyJenn · 01-22-2013, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

If more than one person has a crush on me (it does happen but it's as rare an occurrence as the number of times that Rush Limbaugh comes out with a statement that could be perceived as "liberal"), I usually take away all pressure from myself and decide on the basis of which crusher would be most likely to let me wear her high heels.

That depends... what if she wears the wrong size? Is it enough that she WOULD... if they fit you?

TheMerryFairy · 01-22-2013, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

That depends... what if she wears the wrong size? Is it enough that she WOULD... if they fit you?

It is enough for me. I can crush on more than one person certainly even with our differences.

WolfyOne · 01-22-2013, 06:53 PM

Good Evening Crushers...hope everyone had a good day.

Ciaran · 01-22-2013, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

That depends... what if she wears the wrong size? Is it enough that she WOULD... if they fit you?

Yes, it's enough that she would - it's as much about the principle as the reality.

That said, you've raised a good point. Will need to add "foot measurement" criteria to my ideal partner list.

Is it too personal a question to ask foot size on a first date?

jcisbutch · 01-22-2013, 11:24 PM

perhaps i may....

JustLovelyJenn · 01-22-2013, 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

Yes, it's enough that she would - it's as much about the principle as the reality.

That said, you've raised a good point. Will need to add "foot measurement" criteria to my ideal partner list.

Is it too personal a question to ask foot size on a first date?

I once considered handing them a questionnaire to fill out... It could easily fit into those parameters...

... I need to know your drug history, thoughts about children, favorite color... shoe size...

Yes, this works.

Ciaran · 01-23-2013, 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

I once considered handing them a questionnaire to fill out... It could easily fit into those parameters...

... I need to know your drug history, thoughts about children, favorite color... shoe size...

Yes, this works.

I think this is where I've been going wrong in my dating life to date. Until now, I've been blinded by passion or a nice personality. Instead, I'm now beginning to think that I need to consider dating and prospective relationships from a capital investment perspective.

This will require a full due diligence phase, health & safety assessment and risk mitigation strategies. I fear that this may further limit my dating options or, even worse, that I could end up dating someone as boring and uncharismatic as a banker.

TheMerryFairy · 01-23-2013, 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

I once considered handing them a questionnaire to fill out... It could easily fit into those parameters...

... I need to know your drug history, thoughts about children, favorite color... shoe size...

Yes, this works.

Really? LOL! A questionnaire? I would do this as a survey to see if there are common qualities I am attracted to. I don't know if questionaires really work for dating - for me. I need more than the paper. I need their energy and to see their personality at least THROUGH the paper lol! Not many people can communicate that when feeling like they can be rejected.

Besides, the tree huggers would hate me & that's a big part of my dating pool. Also, I don't want to read most of those applications. I WOULD but then I would cringe at some of the spelling. I might cry. I don't want to cry when I think about dating.

JustLovelyJenn · 01-23-2013, 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

I think this is where I've been going wrong in my dating life to date. Until now, I've been blinded by passion or a nice personality. Instead, I'm now beginning to think that I need to consider dating and prospective relationships from a capital investment perspective.

This will require a full due diligence phase, health & safety assessment and risk mitigation strategies. I fear that this may further limit my dating options or, even worse, that I could end up dating someone as boring and uncharismatic as a banker.

Let me know if you need help in drafting the application, I have a long list of possible flaws to be on the look out for.

01-21-2013, 10:25 PM	#3222
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,995 Times in 3,685 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I might have a crush or two... of varying degrees... but they are safely tucked into my secret pocket, and staying there... nods __________________ --Jenn

01-21-2013, 11:12 PM	#3226
jcisbutch Member How Do You Identify?: just JC Preferred Pronoun?: hy Relationship Status: the hardest to learn was the least complicated Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: NE Ohio getting ready for a move though Posts: 412 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,681 Thanked 1,157 Times in 318 Posts Rep Power: 13500136	hmmmm maybe....could be too soon to tell... __________________

01-21-2013, 11:13 PM	#3227
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01-22-2013, 12:06 AM	#3228
justanolecowboy Member How Do You Identify?: ftm Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: committed. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: IL Posts: 493 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,110 Thanked 1,957 Times in 458 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Absolutely! __________________

01-22-2013, 08:07 AM	#3230
StrongButch Member How Do You Identify?: I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?: Yes Boss Relationship Status: Chillin out with awesome women Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 1,376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,018 Thanked 4,182 Times in 1,180 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Crushers I really meant it as a joke. The only thing im crushing on now is this awesome camera. Keep crushing folks. __________________ Life is like music,so it can be played in many different styles.

01-21-2013, 10:56 PM	#3224
Parker Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Butch. Lesbian. Dyke. Woman. Female. Preferred Pronoun?: She, of course! Relationship Status: Content Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Small Town Life Posts: 2,880 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,858 Thanked 11,730 Times in 2,432 Posts Rep Power: 0	Yeah, I have a crush - I stepped up and told her in private a couple of nights ago.

01-21-2013, 11:10 PM	#3225
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,385 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Ok...I'll admit...I have crushes. Some are long-time crushes, some are more recent. None are aware, nor will they (probably) ever be lol

01-22-2013, 12:13 AM	#3229
GraffitiBoi Member How Do You Identify?: Transmasculine Preferred Pronoun?: Male ones Relationship Status: Playing around and having fun Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Minnetonka, MN Posts: 903 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 990 Thanked 3,663 Times in 824 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Hmmm... besides crushing on myself... LOL I have some 'friend' crushes on here. Otherwise my only actual crush at the moment is someone not on the planet. It's someone at work, unfortunately. I do not mix work and romance. So sad cuz rumor has it she crushes on me too.

01-22-2013, 06:53 PM	#3234
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,410 Times in 4,141 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Good Evening Crushers...hope everyone had a good day. __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

01-22-2013, 11:24 PM	#3236
jcisbutch Member How Do You Identify?: just JC Preferred Pronoun?: hy Relationship Status: the hardest to learn was the least complicated Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: NE Ohio getting ready for a move though Posts: 412 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,681 Thanked 1,157 Times in 318 Posts Rep Power: 13500136	hmmm perhaps i may.... __________________