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08-30-2013, 10:17 AM | #21 |
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Words have power, and words have slightly different emotional attachments to each one of us. I am loving this thread, Tru. Thank you for starting it.
And I also am thankful for the education as to how some people feel about some words. Thank you for a continuing education |
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08-30-2013, 11:08 AM | #22 |
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08-30-2013, 11:40 AM | #23 |
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OHOH OH I Love that Sappho quilt pic. Hmm, I should post something like that in the other thread I made.
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08-30-2013, 12:08 PM | #24 |
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So you really just want to know how others have sex? Is it first me, then you, then me? Or all me, me, me? Or all you, you, you? Technically, even if you're the one laying there *hand up* or hell, on your knees *other hand up* it still takes two to have sex.
I am a femme partnered with a butch and we have sex an assortments of ways, if ya really want to know! When I was a baby lesbian [*le sigh*] it seemed it was you, me, you, me, you, me. I mean, hey, it worked! I am the first to admit I like routines and schedules and stuff, but hey.. I have come [*giggle*] to accept that some people just want to give, give, give and you bet your ass you just better lie/kneel there and take it. With that being said, I am so totally okay with dishing out what was given! Oi, I think I need a shower now.. |
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I"m a giver and receiver myself. I'm wanting to connect with others that are like myself. It kinda feels taboo to talk about and discuss openly and it seems for almost 50 yrs of living as a lesbian butch woman, that it never is talked about this way. I don't care for calling my own pussy a cock or a cunt, but to each their own. I have no issue with anyone that does. I just want to keep the discussion going in a comfortable direction for everyone that wishes to keep it going. Thanks for all your replies and reps. I appreciate them very much.
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08-30-2013, 11:03 PM | #26 |
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Woops was meant for the other thread. LOL
But I am glad we are openly discussing things here as well. The reps are nice and I appreciate the support here too. Thanks and I hope you all keep posting.
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It's just sex...
I'm a femme who prefers to partner with butch to sportier women...and the bottom line is that if I'm naked and she's naked, we're having sex. Not lesbian sex. Not butch/femme sex. Just sex.
The reason I feel that way is because "branding it" somehow makes the sex we're enjoying different or that it needs qualifying in some way. Like when I dated an Italian butch - I didn't think of our lovemaking as "Italian/American Butch on German/Sicilian/American Femme Lesbian Sex" (with olive oil and garlic...haha). It was just really great, fun sex. We may all identify differently - femme, butch, stone butch, etc - but when we're humping and bumping...it's sex that we're having. What an interesting discussion! Thanks Tru for bringing this up... |
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I"m not accustomed to saying I have lesbian sex, but I've seen it referred to online as having lesbian sex. I get where the posts are coming from when it comes to having sex though. When I"m partnered I"m just making love, that's what I actually say in real time. Personally, I could care less what any calls it. I just know that I am a giver and receiver when it comes to having sex. Thanks for the posts, keep them coming, and thanks for the reps.Also, I hope ya'll are enjoying the thread.
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10-21-2013, 07:15 AM | #29 |
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Ah butches. Swwooooon.
I used to "date" femmes similar to myself and although many femmes are so deliciously beautiful and sexy, I couldn't get my head around the similar perfume smells, the sharing of makeup/clothes, etc. I get weak in the knees around women that are masculine centered. A nice pair of jeans A button down shirt The smell of axe (preferably mixed with cigarette smoke) A strong, tough personality Ugh, my girlfriend is all of these things and so much more. I cannot get enough of her. I tell her all the time that eventually I will not have a bottom lip because even after two years together, one glance from her can make me bite it. |
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10-21-2013, 08:06 AM | #30 |
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***Waves hello to everyone***
I'm a femme and I adore the look/smell/feel/touch of having a good butch by my side. I miss the companionship, sharing everyday lives, meals, etc together. I dream of the day I am in the life-long relationship where we have someone to come home to and I have someone I can spoil. That's what I do best...
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I think when we're not partnered, we do tend to miss things about them that would attract us or things that we would be involved doing together. I miss the little things like the smell of her, her perfume, her bed head in the morning, eating lunch together on off days, having dinner together in the evenings, and I miss the sexiness a femme has along with all that.
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10-21-2013, 08:59 AM | #33 |
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I Love Stone Butch
Where are all the Stone Butch for us Stone Femmes
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10-22-2013, 09:46 PM | #35 |
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I believe there is a stone butch thread.
ETA: I just found one and bumped the thread for you.
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I consider myself to be quite versatile.... but the description provided Is def my preference.
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10-22-2013, 10:05 PM | #37 |
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Jhenay, welcome to BFP.
Tru, it was nice for you to bump a stone butch thread. Also, some stone femmes and stone butches are also lesbians. I am a stone butch and a lesbian. |
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Heyas. I'm a lezzo.
I prefer the term "dyke" though. I like my dyke girlfriends to do me with me via their clits, clit-cocks, cocks, mouths, hands, fists, toes, elbows, arses and pretty much all of it. I will do them how they best prefer. I'm not fond of strapping on but some rare people have made it hot for me to do that. I prefer to be their fuckdolly, their sex toy, and us (usually) being both dykes (the occasional one has ID'd as queer), it's dyke sex. I like them to be dominant (the boss in bed and the one in control of what happens and the one to make decisions about what happens around what *they* want to do or to have done to them). but I can switch that - I can be very dominant. but I'm sub:dom 80:20 kind of ratio. so I'm mostly a service orientated pillow queen, really. With a side salad of tie you up and make you say real nasty things. I don't do things to people they don't like (unless, they like being made to do things they don't like so they can like it with no responsibility.... ha) And that is my version of dyke sex. The End |
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Bump...........hee hee
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poke poke poke..............
bumpity bump bump. COME OUT COME OUT WHERE EVER YOU ARE !!
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