Picking apart a femme - Page 2

Soft*Silver · 08-19-2010, 08:54 AM

I was answering in the make up thread when I hit upon the notion of this thread. I had a BF who teased me about having a thin upper lip. He didnt like it. He likes nice full lips. But he loved me so he "accepted" it. But every now and then he would mention it. Once, in front of his friends, much to my horror. To me, "picking apart" a femme is akin to making notice of a male IDd butch's chest/breast size (no, I am not calling them breasts....but thats my point, to do so would "pick apart" the butch)

Have you ever felt picked apart? Dont post nastily. Alot of butches and FtMs just dont know what they are saying. Its part of being 2x4s or at least, not being femme so they dont know the sensitivity to such things. No names and no attacks. Lets educate and share our ouchies kindly....

08-19-2010, 08:54 AM	#1
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	Picking apart a femme I was answering in the make up thread when I hit upon the notion of this thread. I had a BF who teased me about having a thin upper lip. He didnt like it. He likes nice full lips. But he loved me so he "accepted" it. But every now and then he would mention it. Once, in front of his friends, much to my horror. To me, "picking apart" a femme is akin to making notice of a male IDd butch's chest/breast size (no, I am not calling them breasts....but thats my point, to do so would "pick apart" the butch) Have you ever felt picked apart? Dont post nastily. Alot of butches and FtMs just dont know what they are saying. Its part of being 2x4s or at least, not being femme so they dont know the sensitivity to such things. No names and no attacks. Lets educate and share our ouchies kindly.... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears