How to tell if she's into you... - Page 2

LeftWriteFemme · 02-28-2011, 06:51 PM

If she is in your bed..........she might be interested in you

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 07:00 PM

Haha, thanks!

Well, it's a really funny story how it happened, but to sum up? My good friend, who is her good friend... told me to "go for it."

Only, this girl I like... doesn't know I'm friends with her friend. Did that make any sense?

I've heard that if she gives her number, instead of asking for yours, it's a good sign she's interested... I guess I'm just nervous because she's pretty much one of the most gorgeous girls I've ever met. Mhm.

She asked for my FB, first, though... is that normal these days?

Gayla · 02-28-2011, 07:07 PM

I'm probably not the best authority on what folks do these days but I would that her asking you for any kind of contact info is a good sign.

Set the nerves aside, breath, and call her!

And then come back and tell us what happens!

Julie · 02-28-2011, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

She asked for my FB, first, though... is that normal these days?

Facebook Breakups are HORRID (so I have been told)
Don't give her your FB name.

Kobi · 02-28-2011, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme

Facebook Breakups are HORRID (so I have been told)
Don't give her your FB name.

Geez Julie she hasnt had a date yet and you already got her worrying about nasty FB breakups.

Prox....call her, ask her out. Saves a lot of time and energy.

Let us perves know how it goes. Photos are optional.

Julie · 02-28-2011, 07:21 PM

Well, I was just doing the right thing and giving a girl the heads up!
Sheeesh!!!

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 07:29 PM

Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt

Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still

And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night

She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT.

Kobi · 02-28-2011, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme

Well, I was just doing the right thing and giving a girl the heads up!
Sheeesh!!!

Valid point.

And seeing a nasty breakup was the impetus for FB....it is a fair warning.

Julie · 02-28-2011, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt

Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still

And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night

She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT.

I just photo stalked you!
No issues... She will be smearing her eyeliner on more than just paper soon!
Keep us POSTED!

Kobi · 02-28-2011, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt

Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still

And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night

She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT.

Its not Melissa Ethridge right?

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 07:36 PM

You photo-stalked me? Should I be concerned?

I'm actually going to let things happen and try really hard not to overanalyse anything - something I have a tendency to do A LOT. This girl has major points with me already because the friend who told me she was great, is someone I trust with my life. And I don't say that about just anyone.

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 07:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi

Its not Melissa Ethridge right?

Haha, no! This one's local

theoddz · 02-28-2011, 07:38 PM

When she tells you (and REALLY means it!!) that she wants to be there to take care of you when you've got a nasty pneumonia, not to mention asthma, and you're coughing up some of the ugliest loogies that could ever find their way under a microscope, wheezing like a pipe organ and look like bloody hell warmed over (wild bed head, unshaven, baggy bloodshot eyes, wearing a threadbare old pair of boxers and a t-shirt with holes in it, etc.).......

....ya, she's into you.

~Theo~

Julie · 02-28-2011, 07:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

You photo-stalked me? Should I be concerned?

I'm actually going to let things happen and try really hard not to overanalyse anything - something I have a tendency to do A LOT. This girl has major points with me already because the friend who told me she was great, is someone I trust with my life. And I don't say that about just anyone.

Nah don't be concerned... I am simply a Photo Ho!
Just breathe Proxy!
In through your nose - out through your mouth...
Counting 1, 2, 3.... Breathe.

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 07:44 PM

I know, right?

Thanks for the prompts... I'm pretty sure I need them. Gah, I can't believe girls make me this nervous

proximitywithoutintimacy · 03-01-2011, 02:02 PM

So, my friend tells me that this girl dates a lot of people... which makes me... curious. But, she also says that she didn't tell me I was cute just to "be nice." I guess it's one of those things I have to try not to overthink, and just see if she texts me again.

Also, she's older than me, which is a good thing

There's just something about her I can't explain. I like it.

Corkey · 03-01-2011, 02:17 PM

I know this may come off snide, and I really don't mean it to, have you thought just to ask her?
I say this because my wife when we first were dating said the same thing to me. Turn it around and see it from a different perspective.
Good luck.

proximitywithoutintimacy · 03-01-2011, 02:35 PM

I don't necessarily want to do that, mainly because I don't want to put any pressure on the girl. I figure, if she's interested in me, she'll let me know. Until then, I'm just going to relax and let things happen the way they do

You didn't come off snide at all, no worries

justpjhere · 03-01-2011, 07:10 PM

id say when she shows up at in the morning on your day off with your favorite coffee and said i thought you might like coffee...lol

MysticOceansFL · 03-01-2011, 07:41 PM

If you've been talking with the same person for awhile and are friends and she "on her own actions gives you her number an says give me a call" thats a sure sign for sure.

02-28-2011, 06:51 PM	#21
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02-28-2011, 07:38 PM	#33
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03-01-2011, 02:17 PM	#37
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03-01-2011, 07:10 PM	#39
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02-28-2011, 07:07 PM	#23
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02-28-2011, 07:29 PM	#27
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT.

02-28-2011, 07:36 PM	#31
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	You photo-stalked me? Should I be concerned? I'm actually going to let things happen and try really hard not to overanalyse anything - something I have a tendency to do A LOT. This girl has major points with me already because the friend who told me she was great, is someone I trust with my life. And I don't say that about just anyone.

02-28-2011, 07:44 PM	#35
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03-01-2011, 02:02 PM	#36
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	So, my friend tells me that this girl dates a lot of people... which makes me... curious. But, she also says that she didn't tell me I was cute just to "be nice." I guess it's one of those things I have to try not to overthink, and just see if she texts me again. Also, she's older than me, which is a good thing There's just something about her I can't explain. I like it.

03-01-2011, 02:35 PM	#38
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	I don't necessarily want to do that, mainly because I don't want to put any pressure on the girl. I figure, if she's interested in me, she'll let me know. Until then, I'm just going to relax and let things happen the way they do You didn't come off snide at all, no worries

03-01-2011, 07:41 PM	#40
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