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|  12-31-2010, 08:27 AM | #5241 | 
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|  12-31-2010, 09:36 AM | #5242 | 
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	Rep Power: 0            |   "Life is about trusting your feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories, learning from the past, and realizing people change" - Author Unknown | 
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|  12-31-2010, 09:37 AM | #5243 | 
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	Rep Power: 0            |   "To be honest with you, I don't have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that's aching to see you smile again." - Anonymous | 
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|  12-31-2010, 09:42 AM | #5244 | 
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	Rep Power: 0            |   "Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier.  The way it actually works is the reverse.  You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want."  ~Margaret Young | 
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|  01-01-2011, 08:01 AM | #5245 | 
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|  01-01-2011, 08:05 AM | #5246 | 
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			Here's to the bright New Year, and a fond farewell to the old; here's to the things that are yet to come, and to the memories that we hold." HAPPY NEW YEAR MY FRIENDS. | 
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|  01-01-2011, 08:28 AM | #5247 | 
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			It isn't the things that happen to us in our lives that cause us to suffer, it's how we relate to the things that happen to us that causes us to suffer. - Pema Chodron 
				__________________ My wish for you is that you continue. Continue to be who and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humor to lighten the burden of your tender heart. - Maya Angelou | 
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|  01-01-2011, 09:59 AM | #5248 | 
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	Rep Power: 0            |   "To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others." - Tony Robbins | 
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|  01-01-2011, 10:00 AM | #5249 | 
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	Rep Power: 0            |   "The evil that is in the world almost always comes of ignorance, and good intentions may do as much harm as malevolence if they lack understanding." - Albert Camus | 
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|  01-01-2011, 10:01 AM | #5250 | 
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|  01-01-2011, 10:25 AM | #5251 | 
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|  01-01-2011, 10:43 AM | #5252 | |
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			Martin Niemöller (1892-1984) was an ardent nationalist and prominent Protestant pastor who emerged as an outspoken public foe of Adolf Hitler and spent the last seven years of Nazi rule in concentration camps. Niemöller is perhaps best remembered for the quotation: Quote: 
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|  01-01-2011, 10:46 AM | #5253 | 
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|  01-01-2011, 11:12 AM | #5254 | 
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			"Now is the accepted time to make your regular annual good resolutions. Next week you can begin paving hell with them as usual."  - Mark Twain 
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|  01-01-2011, 12:15 PM | #5255 | 
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			Life is difficult.  This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult--once we truly know and accept it--then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters. M. Scott Peck 
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|  01-01-2011, 12:16 PM | #5256 | 
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			Drop the last year into the silent limbo of the past.  Let it go, for it was imperfect, and thank God that it can go. Brooks Atkinson 
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|  01-01-2011, 12:17 PM | #5257 | 
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			Every person should be born again on the first day of January.  Start with a fresh page. Take up one hole more in the buckle if necessary, or let down one, according to circumstances; but on the first of January let every person gird him or herself once more, with face to the front, and take no interest in the things that were and are past. Henry Ward Beecher 
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|  01-01-2011, 03:31 PM | #5258 | 
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|  01-01-2011, 03:39 PM | #5259 | 
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			“A new year is unfolding like a blossom with petals curled tightly concealing the beauty within.” | 
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|  01-01-2011, 04:37 PM | #5260 | 
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			"Be at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let every New Year find you a better man." ~Benjamin Franklin | 
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