What is on your mind - Page 296

sylvie · 05-21-2011, 07:58 PM

i know i'm not supergirl.
i cant fix people, i cant fix situations and its up to them to do so.
that being said, i've often tried to be the fixer upper many times through life.
and get myself way too far involved in other's 'stuff'..
not in the healthy helping way, but taking the brunt of it on my shoulders, therefore dragging me down -

i took some steps today, made some decisions, and reached out in a few ways.. all of which was positive for me, and the first step in finally pushing myself passed these few things which held me back.. this could be the hardest things i do - but necessary for getting passed them and moving forward..

i can do this - and am so thankful for kind people who step forward, even when not knowing me so much yet to give me a hug and share their experiences which are still fresh to them.. ♥

~Bo · 05-21-2011, 08:40 PM

Watching Shania Twain's show on OWN. What kind of dumbass husband would cheat on her and dump her??

Shit for brains.

She is soooooo fucking hot!!

dixie · 05-21-2011, 11:09 PM

How simply perfect things feel right now. It's been a wonderful day with the kiddo then an evening at the club with good friends, now three hours into another great conversation. Two weeks caffeine free, still on my workout routine and still progressing with my weight loss goals. School stuff squared away, books purchased. It just kinda hit me today: everything seems to be falling into place. Looking forward to a great summer.

bright_arrow · 05-23-2011, 02:05 AM

I am thinking, while it would be nice to go to the college my partner works at for the 85% remitted tuition, that it would affect my work as I'd have to physically attend.. So I will apply for financial aid tonight to go to a community college via online classes as they actually offer a whole degree that I can take via online classes.

This may be the one time I am happy for my not-so-much paycheck.

Tommi · 05-23-2011, 03:48 AM

Amazing gay crowd that walled off the anti-gay freaks so they could not heckle and display there venomous signs in the middle of Long Beach Pride Parade today.

All shouting Were here and we're queer above the protesters hate speeches.

Miss Scarlett · 05-23-2011, 04:35 AM

i am still all excited this morning!!!

i had the most amazing weekend...my first NASCAR experience and it was incredible! Went to the truck race Friday night and the All Star Race Saturday night...there was so much going on i didn't know where to look and wished i had many pairs of eyes to take it all in!

Escorted by 2 handsome devils both nights...what more could a girl ask for?

Seats 4 rows from the track Saturday night...WOW!!! The roar of the cars & trucks! The breeze that follows them...nearly blew off my sparkly hat more than a few times...yes sparkly!!!!
An absolutely adorable pink & gray ball cap the the number 14 in rhinestones!!!!!

i don't think i've stopped smiling since Friday night!

This Sunday is another NASCAR adventure and i can't wait!

dixie · 05-23-2011, 07:02 AM

People confuse the shit outta me.

Tommi · 05-23-2011, 07:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dixielady

People confuse the shit outta me.

That could be My bumper sticker.

jenny · 05-23-2011, 08:35 AM

I bought something at a jewelry kiosk in a mall in Boston, about a year ago. I can't for the life of me remember the name of the kiosk, nor the name of the mall, and it's driving me crazy.

Grr.

uglyboi · 05-23-2011, 08:49 AM

Ok, now we are getting ready to go to the beach for a couple of days. Beasley has filled the suitcase with enough clothes for 2 weeks? Who else out there does this??

Why?

*L*

Massive · 05-23-2011, 02:38 PM

Three hours sleep isn't enough, especially to then have to deal with having exactly half of my living room floorboards taken up because the boards and joists were so riddled with woodworm that the joiner described them as "wafer thin" ... This is acceptable accommodation for someone they know is physically disabled according to my new landlord, let's see who wins this, doubt they'd look good when the're getting their arses handed to them on a plate if I sue the feckers...

Ebon · 05-23-2011, 02:40 PM

Why it's taking this man 30 minutes to install ink cartridges.

Kätzchen · 05-23-2011, 02:46 PM

a lot...

I need a vacation really
to some place that's really warm,
sunny, rain-free, crystal clear air (no pollen),
and lots of bonding time.

shopping too.

mostly to not let things get me down:
That's a hard number for me to do.

I guess the cookies are done,
I can smell them *yum*

deb_U_taunt · 05-23-2011, 02:58 PM

Why are the craziest people the ones who claim sanity?

Kobi · 05-23-2011, 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~Bo

Watching Shania Twain's show on OWN. What kind of dumbass husband would cheat on her and dump her??

Shit for brains.

She is soooooo fucking hot!!

Sidestepping the inherent objectification of women.....just goes to show hotness does not a relationship/marriage make.

undone · 05-23-2011, 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommi

Amazing gay crowd that walled off the anti-gay freaks so they could not heckle and display there venomous signs in the middle of Long Beach Pride Parade today.

All shouting Were here and we're queer above the protesters hate speeches.

I loved the folks with that brought there own signs in rainbows with phrases like, 'We put the "family" in family values!" or "If all gays are going to hell I am brining lube!" ohh and the Mohawks! yep i got my pictures and was she cute!!! to bad i am not a good flirt!

ohh but the best is I have the most wonderful very straight macho man cousin who came with me and his sister and her wife, he brought his 17 year old daughter and his wife, when he turned around very calmly and preached right back the the fools behind the black gates with vast knowledge of the bible and religious histories. (He has had some practice being that a large portion of out family is hard headed practicing mormon). he was wonderful till he was out voiced by those that had already had too much to drink that morning and the cheers for the young girls who chose to display there passions for the bigoted folks behind the gates, well at least my cousin got his version of a reward for his willingness(after all he is straight!).

JoSchmooze · 05-23-2011, 03:49 PM

OK, so how did I meet this incredible woman?
The dawg sitter invites me to go out with her and her family
for her birthday dinner. The sitter's mom invites her best friend...
And it turns out I like the mom's best friend better than than my friend,
the sitter!

Since then I have been at gatherings where this older woman
has also been invited and have been asked to dinner at her home
a couple times.Now, she doesn't know me that well,
but has decided that she enjoys my company. Amazin!

Next thing I know she has offered to come with me to a few
medical appointments so that I can get all my questions
answered. I tend to not ask what is exactly on my mind
and this woman has been through this with
her family.

What did I do to deserve someone who barely knows me
to be so kind and generous??

AtLast · 05-23-2011, 04:27 PM

I'm kind of amazed of how we can all track who is viewing what and when on the Planet. I never really paid much attention to these functions before. WHOA!!

AtLast · 05-23-2011, 04:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Debby

Why are the craziest people the ones who claim sanity?

Must be part of their delusional state...

deb_U_taunt · 05-23-2011, 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AtLastHome

Must be part of their delusional state...

You know, it's like those who claim brilliance and have NO common sense. lol

05-21-2011, 07:58 PM	#5901
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	i know i'm not supergirl. i cant fix people, i cant fix situations and its up to them to do so. that being said, i've often tried to be the fixer upper many times through life. and get myself way too far involved in other's 'stuff'.. not in the healthy helping way, but taking the brunt of it on my shoulders, therefore dragging me down - i took some steps today, made some decisions, and reached out in a few ways.. all of which was positive for me, and the first step in finally pushing myself passed these few things which held me back.. this could be the hardest things i do - but necessary for getting passed them and moving forward.. i can do this - and am so thankful for kind people who step forward, even when not knowing me so much yet to give me a hug and share their experiences which are still fresh to them.. ♥ __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

05-23-2011, 03:48 AM	#5905
Tommi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Usually "Hello" Relationship Status: Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach. Posts: 8,151 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,621 Thanked 21,337 Times in 5,969 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Amazing gay crowd that walled off the anti-gay freaks so they could not heckle and display there venomous signs in the middle of Long Beach Pride Parade today. All shouting Were here and we're queer above the protesters hate speeches. Last edited by Tommi; 05-23-2011 at 03:53 AM.

05-23-2011, 08:35 AM	#5909
jenny Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme Relationship Status: inquire within Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 956 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 434 Thanked 1,593 Times in 580 Posts Rep Power: 5091118	I bought something at a jewelry kiosk in a mall in Boston, about a year ago. I can't for the life of me remember the name of the kiosk, nor the name of the mall, and it's driving me crazy. Grr. __________________ "How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world." ~ Anne Frank “Life's most persistent and urgent question is: 'What are you doing for others?'” ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

05-23-2011, 02:40 PM	#5912
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05-23-2011, 03:49 PM	#5917
JoSchmooze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He, hym, mister or "sir", like I get called by strangers! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Right here, surrounded by technology Posts: 1,830 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,267 Thanked 10,989 Times in 1,627 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	OK, so how did I meet this incredible woman? The dawg sitter invites me to go out with her and her family for her birthday dinner. The sitter's mom invites her best friend... And it turns out I like the mom's best friend better than than my friend, the sitter! Since then I have been at gatherings where this older woman has also been invited and have been asked to dinner at her home a couple times.Now, she doesn't know me that well, but has decided that she enjoys my company. Amazin! Next thing I know she has offered to come with me to a few medical appointments so that I can get all my questions answered. I tend to not ask what is exactly on my mind and this woman has been through this with her family. What did I do to deserve someone who barely knows me to be so kind and generous?? __________________ *Live your life in such a way that* *when your feet hit the floor* *in the morning,* *Satan shudders and* *says, "Oh God, he's up!"*

05-21-2011, 08:40 PM	#5902
~Bo Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: PA Posts: 1,590 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 1,680 Times in 742 Posts Rep Power: 13485855	Watching Shania Twain's show on OWN. What kind of dumbass husband would cheat on her and dump her?? Shit for brains. She is soooooo fucking hot!!

05-21-2011, 11:09 PM	#5903
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,383 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	How simply perfect things feel right now. It's been a wonderful day with the kiddo then an evening at the club with good friends, now three hours into another great conversation. Two weeks caffeine free, still on my workout routine and still progressing with my weight loss goals. School stuff squared away, books purchased. It just kinda hit me today: everything seems to be falling into place. Looking forward to a great summer.

05-23-2011, 02:05 AM	#5904
bright_arrow ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ How Do You Identify?: one queer mama Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married to my Boo Daddy <3 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: nor cal Posts: 2,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,644 Thanked 9,363 Times in 2,296 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I am thinking, while it would be nice to go to the college my partner works at for the 85% remitted tuition, that it would affect my work as I'd have to physically attend.. So I will apply for financial aid tonight to go to a community college via online classes as they actually offer a whole degree that I can take via online classes. This may be the one time I am happy for my not-so-much paycheck.

05-23-2011, 04:35 AM	#5906
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	i am still all excited this morning!!! i had the most amazing weekend...my first NASCAR experience and it was incredible! Went to the truck race Friday night and the All Star Race Saturday night...there was so much going on i didn't know where to look and wished i had many pairs of eyes to take it all in! Escorted by 2 handsome devils both nights...what more could a girl ask for? Seats 4 rows from the track Saturday night...WOW!!! The roar of the cars & trucks! The breeze that follows them...nearly blew off my sparkly hat more than a few times...yes sparkly!!!! An absolutely adorable pink & gray ball cap the the number 14 in rhinestones!!!!! i don't think i've stopped smiling since Friday night! This Sunday is another NASCAR adventure and i can't wait!

05-23-2011, 07:02 AM	#5907
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,383 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	People confuse the shit outta me.

05-23-2011, 08:49 AM	#5910
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05-23-2011, 02:38 PM	#5911
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05-23-2011, 02:46 PM	#5913
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05-23-2011, 02:58 PM	#5914
deb_U_taunt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: May 2011 Location: ....... Posts: 1,748 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,324 Thanked 5,256 Times in 1,361 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Why are the craziest people the ones who claim sanity?

05-23-2011, 04:27 PM	#5918
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