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yes...I have known...
Do I believe in love at first sight...soul mates..Yes I do...
I can honestly say ..this has happened more then once with past partners..not that I have had many...lol. The first meeting of each other...the first touch ...the first kiss...the amazing chemistry....the longing of your next seeing of each other...then....the ultimate...the utter explosion of passion..animal lust..if you may..the uniting of two souls..and never feeling and being able to explain what you both have felt... Will you ever feel this way again..yes....but on entirely different levels... Enjoy each and every moment of love and passion...it is never ending... |
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did u ever just know?
yes, i know a lot, and often.
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I've "just known" a few times. Most of the time, it turned out I was wrong. I think we can connect with people on many levels, and it can be exhilarating. If there's such a thing as knowing someone from a prior life, that would be really intoxicating, too. But, who says that this means that the person would make a good partner? I think it's easy to confuse attraction, lust, or chemistry with true love. In my opinion, none of those is necessarily an indicator of a good long-term relationship.
I was very attracted to someone at our first contact, which was on line. We both expressed that it felt like we were "soulmates." I was over the moon. It turned out to be the darkest, most toxic relationship I ever had. I'm willing to believe that we are connected in some psychological or maybe even some psychic way. But, "psychotic" would more aptly describe it. In my present relationship, we "just knew." But then, we lived the ups and downs of the relationship. It's great to connect with someone from the outset, and really feel that deep connection. But, in my opinon, you have to keep creating the love, romance, and respect in the relationship for it to continue to be the one you envisioned.
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2. Yes I have. It is a incredible experience. What's better is she felt it too. 3. Again this is a yes. And what's cool it is all for the same person.
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sometimes its dead on and then sometimes its another one of life's lessons. its all a journey- the good and the bad
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I knew it well :)
Those butterflies in the pit of my stomach were great! I miss that feeling... I want it again!
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Oh! Thank you. This so resonates with my Mama heart. It was the same with me when my girl was born. She lay on my chest and looked right at me with these huge eyes. Skin to skin and eyes to eyes. It is one of my most cherished internal snapshots. We knew each other!!! Right there. Thank you for sharing that. |
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Did I ever just know? No. I know, call me Mister Romantic. When I think I may even be close to the "know" I pause, think about it, see how things go.
Yes, I have fallen in love and even though things do not always unfold as I had hoped, this does not take away from the fact that "Yes" I can, I did and do love. I have found it is possible to love again.
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I know I believe in what is possible... and that I know the real thing when it has happened. And that taking one's time is how to nourish what is possible.... Rushing in... well, that is for fools! Best to choose well and grow...
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I have been in love twice before this current one...
When we met the first time I felt an instant attraction, we chatted a little socially but the timing was not appropriate and I remember thinking that hys energy was just amazing and calming, but I let it go instantly and went on with myself. We met again a couple of months later and felt acquainted enough to hug each other in 'hello'...the energy that passed between us in that instant was the most amazing sensation I have ever felt... the evening went on but once again not an appropriate time for flirting or showing of any kind of interest (it just wasn't the right place). Not long after that, I felt an urge to contact hym to express my gratitude for hys kindness towards me under some unusual circumstances and let it go. Surprisingly, hy responded back and we began e-mailing back and forth, etc.. met again in much better circumstances and have been seeing each other ever since. I just knew from the first moment and it was further reinforced by the 'hug' and it has continued to grow since then. I am in love and believe this is the 'one' and am grateful that everything is 'mutual'... 'everything'. I cherish each moment we have together as if it is our last. It is truly the most selfless love I have ever experienced in my life. I don't feel any negative feelings, I don't have any negative thoughts. I let go spiritually in every moment we share and the more I let go the closer we become. I don't know how to articulate the experience at all... it just 'is' |
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Another vote for yes, yes and yes.
19 days after our first date, I said, "Yes" to another question. 12-1/2 years later, I still feel like the luckiest woman in the world
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Yup. And I told her (2 years later) but bad timing, lack of mutual feeling or just plain old fear of her feelings on her part ... it didn't work out. Course, never say never ... but move move movin on. At least I recognized it and went for it.
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Oh momma, yes I did, feels like about a hundred years ago.
For me, personally, when I get that leaping toward feeling in my chest, that whacked upside the head by cupid's cute little ass feeling, I have learned to RUN not walk away, it is a sure sign that their broken parts will line up with my broken parts and our gears and cogs of dysfunction will make a machine of mass destruction called a bad relationship.
The kinda love that works for me, that bodes well for a relationship and healthy loving long term interaction is a peacefulness, an ease of relating, a spark of desire and a bit of admiration tossed in for good measure. For those who have unblemished hearts or souls (or whatever you want to call it), my congratulations to your swept away feelings, I am a little envious. Quote:
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Usually I can tell when I pick one up. If I tap it just right it has a distinct sound and is ready. Sometimes you can't tell by looks alone, but sometimes there is that special sheen as well.
Also the smell. Pleasant, sweet. I am an excellent produce shopper.
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