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OFOS Butch......wants to find an OFOS Femme
Being an "older, matured" OFOS butch...I am realizing that these qualities/attributes are going by the wayside. It is a shame...as I want these to be always a part of ME..who I am. These are a part of my everyday life. Manners, courtesy, respect, and chivalry are the main ingredients of me.
I am a 1950's model of OFOS Butch...I prefer feminine pronouns BUT am NOT offended by hy, hym, boi, daddi...words are just words...those do NOT in any way define me nor make me who I am....as my inner soul is who/what I am. I have many, many miles on me..my "odometer of life" has rolled over a time or two...BUT I am guaranteed to make it past one million miles..and then some. I am blessed with stamina, endurance, patience, and a sense of humor that gets me through. I live life to its fullest each day. I am always positive and upbeat, and see the glass as half full. I am kind, gentle, fiercely loyal, protective..being a Leo! My disposition is always sunny, I am very very protective of my den. My body has its fair share of knicks, dings, and "repair marks" BUT is a healthy body...my heart is in excellent shape and is ready to fall in love again..when the right one comes along. Being a minimalist and not about material things of the world, I am quite comfortable, live within my means, and have a heart the size of Texas. I am generous to a fault, I love hard, I love deeply, and I love monogamously! Some of my greatest joy comes from writing to my special lady...may it be poetry, erotica, or silly love notes....maybe a scrawled in lipstick note on the mirror..or a note hidden in her purse to find later on...or maybe a special meal..just for us two..by the fireplace..or on the beach..and maybe a moonlight picnic in my SUV..by the water..I enjoy giving massages..and can rub muscles for quite a long time...kisses....ahhh...long, slow, deep kisses...flirting outrageously...holding hands... I am one of those rare breed of butches that I have no "preconceived" ideal in mind...all I am looking for is she be sincere, genuine, honest, and one whose heart will join mine..and we will beat as one...someone who is available and able to commit, who wants the chaos, the trials & tribulations life has, and who is able to simply join my hand with hers and let our hearts be as one... It doesn't matter where you came from..what you did...what matters is that NOW you will be here with me..a clean slate..the past is gone....we will make our own lives rich and full...you will have an inner beauty and incredible soul...it is the heart & soul that matter most to me..if that is beautiful then YOU will be the most gorgeous woman on the face of the earth to me!! You will have my undying love and rapt attention...you will walk along with me..equal in all respects..I will love you to eternity and back...you will always be treated and respected for the lady you are!!! The intimate part of US will be between us and decided privately between us...it is sacred to me...and as well to you, I hope!! Thanks for stopping by...reading what I have written. I am enjoying the Planet and I know she will offer you up to me..when the time is right...I am in no hurry...I am enjoying life..one day at a time...waiting for YOU...to come home...meanwhile I am enjoying flirting with the ladies here!!! Have an awesome day...from this OFOS butch...who owns it..who wears it..who KNOWS it is within my soul...a deeply rooted part of me....who "walks the talk and talks the walk"...xoxoxoxo...Clay
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01-16-2012, 05:00 PM
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I also had wanted to add that I am a hopeless romantic. I am always, always thinking of ways to let my woman know how much she means to me..I literally ooze it from my pores..and have a very vivid imagination...BUT with me..it is always about romance..whether we are newly dating..or been partnered for months or years...we will always have dates....in many places and ways...it is all about staying in love...and keeping that love vibrant, alive, and fired up!!
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01-17-2012, 05:28 AM
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My beautiful friend, I sincerely hope you meet that equally beautiful Femme you desire. I know you will both be very happy together when you do eventually meet each other.
 Oh! And make sure you send out my Wedding Invitation in good time so we can create myschief before your big day! ….The Carolinas won’t know what’s hit them! LOL! 
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01-17-2012, 07:16 AM
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awwww big hugs! You will find her. I just know it.
But in the mean time perhaps you can mosey on up to southern virginia and give us a hand on the farm weekends? There's a few of us ready to do great things. You'll work hard, get in great shape and who knows, might be a few cute fillies stroll in now and then. lol
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01-17-2012, 07:55 AM
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At risk of a stupid question, what is OFOS?
At any rate, I know you will find someone right for you 
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01-17-2012, 08:38 AM
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 Thanks.)Meanwhile, I also had to google "Pitch and woo" ... But that just made me smile It's just so educational around here
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01-17-2012, 09:37 AM
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hi Sachita! Thank YOU also for your kind words. I appreciate that! Oh trust me, I wish I COULD be a part of that Dream Farm Team! I wouldn't be of much help at this time..lol...I have to sit to do most anything....having been all busted up in a debilitating motorcycle wreck in May 2006. I can walk, but with limits...short distances! I CAN cook and do some things though! Sounds like quite an adventure you will be having up there...yes, I would be in great shape and chase some of those young fillies around. I am so glad you have a carpenter coming. I Know she will be a huge help to you!!! Good luck....make it happen girl!! Clay
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ah the Mystress of Myschief! Thank you, for such glowing words about me...I thank you deeply! smiles... I will be sure to send YOU, Mystress Myschief a Wedding Invite..and you are right...the Carolinas won't EVER be the same afterwards!! This IS the Baptist Bible Belt of the South...lawd lawd...a quirky Kiwi on the loose....oh my stars...lmao..we WILL most defs get into Myschief!! Have an awesome day my friend...and CONGRATS to you also!!
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I reckon the deep south probably still hasn't recovered from the last time I was there! LOL! That could have been why they offered me a job there, again, recently!  LOL! Next Wednesday is the meeting/interview. I need to sit and meditate on this and the Uni places....it would be great to do both, if there were more houes in the day! LOL!
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I still love this thread, its a beautiful thing to see all of the wonderful butches and femmes here
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01-23-2012, 12:32 PM
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Monday's Musings...to my future OFOS Femme...
today has dawned a gorgeous, sunny warm day here in tropical land.....and if you were here...we would pack a lunch picnic, grab a blanket, wine, and my iPod..and off we would go down to the shore...and have a delicious, slowly, sensual "lunch"....enjoying the fresh salt air, the warm sand, and we would walk out to the edge..dip our toes in the sea foam..and feel the warm waters rush over our toes...as the wind swept the tendrils of hair across your forehead...as I gently tipped my head down for a kiss...tasting the wine on your sweet lips...and losing myself into your amazing beauty...knowing that all that matters in that moment...is that we are immersed into one another..eyes searching, resonating, and validating..and knowing we belong..for eternity..one to the other...your beauty always, always sweeps me away...you make me go weak in the knees with those eyes....soulful, willful, wanting, sensual, and seeing down into my own soul...how incredibly deep my love and admiration and devotion is to you...always about YOU...my world is blah, colorless, and so empty without you..so I await you...by the sea..to come and fill my heart, my soul, my world with your beauty..your soul..your love...your eyes...the very essence of your scent.....for you ARE the "scent of love" in my sea!!!!
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in my desire for a wonderful OFOS Femme to be with me...I want her to be one who will be an open communicator with me.
I want for us to be bound only by lovestrings that join our hearts...a bond that will stand the test of time..and needs only our nurturing it, tending it, and protecting it... my heart will skip a beat or two...just in seeing her...whether it was ten minutes ago OR 8 hrs. ago....as will hers. I want music to be an integral part...as we share one another's passions for whatever genre..and we would love plays, opera, and movies...date nights once a month..just us..like two randy teens each and every time we meet up...that passion for one another to never die, but to consume us more every day! To share hobbies, interests, and passions for whatever life may offer...equally! I will give her reason to smile randomly during her day...thinking of her handsome prince...just as I will thinking of my beautiful princess! While walking, our steps will be ones of skipping or dancing..to that soulful beat of rhythm inside our hearts...that sing one to the other. Our lovemaking will ignite small fires inside us...that increase to raging infernos to be quelled with love's waters... She will be treated like a human being...never be yelled at, ridiculed, or abused...only love lives in my heart & veins....only love, respect, kindness, and courtesy will she ever know..gentleness, softness, and passion. She will be spoiled with many, many little and big things I am able to give to her...picnics in bed...or beach...or by a fire on the beach...lovenotes..left inconspicuous places, meals made with love, massages, baths with candles and soft music, love letters written with the most ardent of passions from me...erotically colorful, tender, raw, hungry, and always always with genuineness....my treasure chest for her will always have magical, mystical, and wonderfully passionate things to give to her...it isn't about the $ BUT about heart gifts! I want a woman who wants to have a quiet, loving, simple life...built for the two uf us...filled with much love, civility, respect, and courtesy...loyalty, devotion, and eyes for only me...as I will only for her... Our love will hve trust in one another, trust that doesn't require binding someone...with that trust comes security, believing in one another, and being able to have friends, their own identity, and not have to live under a "proverbial" microscope...that is how MY love & I live I want a woman who has passions of her own, who lives life on her own terms, who will be MY true North, just as I will hers. I want to have her walk her walk...and be her own woman....yet need what I can give her...to complement her..and her, me. I want a woman who is able to be independent yet we mutually have needs of one another. I want her to walk her path....but walk the path of love with me. I want her to have her own identity...it is not about owning someone, or making her be a puppet...it is about being equals..in every way. I want a woman who wants to get mushy love letters, flowers..just because..and who wants an OFOS, matured butch! I am open, genuine, and am like this 24/7. I won't ever change...and I want to be who I am now..what you read and see is just what you will get. I want a woman who will dance close to me in bed at night as we kiss the day's sunlight goodbye and welcome the moonbeams...and make love so sweetly..so tenderly...so passionately...sometimes greeting the sun...as we were so lost in time and space that we made love..all night long...I can make love to you..without making love to you...when our hearts synch with one another, you will understand this... I want someone who will share a cup of coffee with me..naked and in bed..or with just a robe and sit in my lap..as we rock gently. I want a woman who is willing to step into our world..free and without any one else involved..I know there are women who will want this...I am waiting for just that woman.....so...step into my heart..I await you by the seashore...with a picnic..hope you will enjoy this journey...I intend to walk it to eternity when she comes into my heart...
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01-23-2012, 08:50 PM
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You're such a 'romantic' aren't you Clay? I really hope you find that illusive femme and you both live happily ever after, just like in the fairy tales. And when you find her, she'll be the luckiest woman around!
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Your an amazing soul clay, never forget that
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For me, there is only one heart, one love....when we connect....she will be that one heart, one love I want! This heart is destined for that....it will be pure rapture...discovering all the things about that one heart, one love...walking so slowly into love...being friends....liking....connecting..enjoying that getting to know one another....and the greatest part of all...will be when it is actually One Heart,One Love!
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She has entered my life....and I am now with my ONE Heart, One Love!!!
The boi has hys girl.....smiles....
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